Putting Clients with Asperger's Syndrome on the Path to Success

How Adding Brain Science to Therapy Normalizes Living with Asperger's

Richard Howlin

Looking disheveled and wearing shoes without socks, 25-year-old Steven is brought to their family session by his parents, who are deeply worried about his "his failure to launch." His father begins by describing him as a loner who's far more interested in computer games than people. Apparently, he hangs around his parents' house wearing the same T-shirt every day, staying up to the early hours watching his Three Stooges video collection. He's recently flunked out of college, doesn't have a single friend, has no plans for the future, and seems to have no sense of urgency or concern about his life. Diagnosed with ADHD in school, he never really fit in socially as a child---he's always seemed odd to others, preferring to play alone.

For most of us, trying to get other people to like and care about us is an inherent psychological instinct that's hardwired. This isn't the case with people like Steven and others who suffer from Asperger's syndrome (AS). The world of social expectation has only a remote significance in Steven's life. This is readily visible in his dress and preference for his own company.

In typical referral cases in which AS is suspected, I meet first with the young adult or adolescent, and then have a session with the parents to assess their perspective and the student's history. In the individual session, I often raise issues that enable me to assess and motivate the client. In my first individual session with him, I ask Steven about his interests "Trains, and especially train timetables and routes," he says, suddenly coming to life. He begins asking me what I know about trains and what trains I've traveled on in Europe (I'm from England), talking now like an excited young child showing off a new toy.

Adults with AS often behave as if they were confused actors walking onto a stage and being the only ones who don't know the lines or the plot. Worse still, their ability to fake it---to just pick up the emotional tenor of others---is severely limited by their concrete, inflexible thinking style. People with AS aren't able to shift their attention easily or adapt to changing circumstances. Unexpected departures from routine can throw them into complete catatonia.

I eventually begin my treatment with Steven by discussing the strengths and challenges of AS, describing it as an extreme learning style. I offer some basic information about the nature of Asperger's syndrome, including demographic studies that suggest an incidence of at least 1 in 200 people, with 90 percent of these being males. In lay language, I explain that the condition appears to stem from a lack of neural integration, rather than from discrete neurological impairments. As a result, children with Asperger's typically have normal language and intelligence. In fact, problems often become evident only later in their development, and many individuals reach adulthood without diagnosis.

I also meet separately with Steven's anxious and exhausted parents and follow these separate sessions with a conjoint family summing-up session. When I explain that Asperger's is a neurobiological condition that isn't a result of poor parenting, his parents are profoundly relieved to hear that the cause of their struggle over all these years has a name and that their concerns and exhaustion are shared by many parents in their situation. Then tears of relief and sadness start to flow. These moments with parents are among my most touching experiences as a psychologist, since I identify with the emotional toll of raising a socially confused and often rejected child.

In AS there's usually an extremely dominant, analytic, left- hemispheric bias, which leads to seeing the world as isolated elements without context. Adults with AS feel they need every piece of information before being able to make any decision and are unable to discriminate between the essential and the nonessential. One of my initial goals in therapy is to provide clients with an awareness of this bigger picture, helping them realize the role their brain plays in their everyday practical and social understanding. With both the client and the family, I go over in detail the problems related to empathy, communication, and executive skills typically experienced by clients with Asperger's.

Treating the Individual

Therapy with AS is a step-by-step process of skill training, life planning, and helping clients integrate their unusual and obsessive talents into a productive life. With Steven, our time was balanced between working on specific behavioral goals (i.e., improving his sleep schedule) and the more complex process of social skill training and enhancing communication awareness.

With my support, he joined a train club not too far from his home. Although this provided him with the beginnings of a motivating social experience rooted in his interest, he needed repeated prompting to attend the meetings. AS clients typically exhibit symptoms of social avoidance and must be encouraged to increase social interactions gradually.

Steven is now attending a community college and is making slow but consistent progress toward a degree in computer science. An early focus for us was basic social skills. We practiced social presentation and nonverbal communication every week. We'd role-play situations and, as homework, I asked him to act out certain scenarios in his room and practice expressing specific emotions.

Steven has become more aware of his body language and now participates in an acting club on campus, actually preferring this over the train club. He's also grasped the idea that one doesn't have to express one's opinion in every situation. The fruits of this work are reflected in Steven's reports of moments of social success and enjoyment. I plan on seeing him for at least another year, with the goal of gradually spacing our sessions more.

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Topic: Children/Adolescents | Anxiety/Depression

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