Underneath it all, the narcissist is skeptical and frightened.
That’s the first thing to remember, according to Wendy Behary, a recognized expert in treating narcissistic men. The second is to use the consulting room as a microcosm of the wider world. Third, and most important, is to stay in the moment.
Engaging without enabling is possible, as Wendy demonstrates in this video clip.
Rich Simon
Richard Simon, PhD, founded Psychotherapy Networker and served as the editor for more than 40 years. He received every major magazine industry honor, including the National Magazine Award. Rich passed away November 2020, and we honor his memory and contributions to the field every day.
Wendy Behary
Wendy Behary, LCSW, is the founder and director of The Schema Therapy Institutes of NJ-NYC-DC. She’s the author of an international bestselling book, Disarming the Narcissist, translated into 16 languages. The third edition was selected by Oprah Daily as one of the Top Books on Narcissism, and Most Therapist-Recommended Book.
