First Person

Creative personal essays on life and family
Article March 2, 2021

Celebrating the Creative Journey

A Writer's Remembrance

Even for seasoned writers, being edited by Rich wasn't an easy process, but it led them to the murky, half-buried thing waiting below the surface—the thing... Read more

Article March 2, 2021

Soul Work

Recovering Our Voices

Almost 20 years ago, an editorial experience writing about a racial trauma at the hands of police resulted in a lasting friendship and an article that... Read more

Article March 2, 2021

A Legacy of Living with Courage

Discovering the Watchful Heart

The legacies of extraordinary people we’ve lost invite us to embrace the examples they’ve left behind. But how exactly do we do it? Read more

Article March 2, 2021

The Grief We Hold

Loving in the Midst of Loss

Our soul and our psyche know how to grieve. We don't need to learn it. It's not a technique. What we need to learn is not to avoid it. Read more

Article March 2, 2021

Reflections on Rich

Friends Celebrate His Life and Legacy

Sharing how Rich Simon impacted our lives—and the field as a whole. Read more

Article December 30, 2020

Editor's Note: January/February 2021

Creating Lifelines for Today’s Kids

This issue explores how our current pandemic reality is affecting kids and their caregivers. Read more

Article December 30, 2020

Rhythm Guitar

Stepping Out of a Big Brother's Shadow

Finding harmony in a difficult sibling relationship. Read more

Article December 18, 2020

On the Death of My Friend Rich Simon

A Reflection on Bipolar Disorder and Suicide

Dan Siegel, author and cofounder of the Mindsight Institute, was a close friend of Networker editor Rich Simon for over two decades. Rich's family has asked... Read more

Article November 3, 2020

The Outcast

A Hard Road to an Unexpected Connection

How do you work with a client who intentionally tries to break every rule of therapy, spoken and implicit? Read more

Article November 3, 2020

The Unbearable Heaviness of Being

Learning to Celebrate a New Shape

Refusing to be defined by others can sometimes require an unexpected catalyst. Read more

Article November 3, 2020

The overwhelming shift to teletherapy this year represents the first wave of a sea change in the field of therapy—nothing less. We’ll need to marshal all... Read more

Article November 3, 2020

CoronaGifts

How Teletherapy Changed My Life and My Practice

The pandemic has showed us just how much our clients need us—and how much we need to tend to ourselves. For some therapists, this has meant reimagining their... Read more

Article September 21, 2020

Selfcarefully

Self-Care Shifts toward Authenticity

In my years of working with myself and my clients around self-care, I’ve learned that there is no such thing as perfect self-care. Instead, I’ve found... Read more

Article August 27, 2020

The Wonder of Mom’s World

Discovering Egypt over a Cup of Tea
Kathleen Monahan

The ordinary moments of life reveal the true wonders of a mother–daughter relationship. Read more

Article June 30, 2020

Lost and Found

Scenes from a Miscarriage

The story of a miscarriage is often about crushed hope, but it can also bring unexpected possibility. Read more

Article June 30, 2020

Meeting the Moment

The Importance of Risk in Therapy

The therapist’s office is a zone of creative adventure and unpredictability, where the most powerful moments often come out of the blue. Read more

Article June 30, 2020

Wave Till You Can’t See Me

Lessons in Fear and Safety

Lessons for a parent in fear and safety. Read more

Article June 11, 2020

Some Days Are Too Much

A Therapist Gets Real about Families Struggling to Cope in Quarantine

Some clients in quarantine with their families report a constant feeling of being out of control. That danger lurks around the corner of every family... Read more

Article June 1, 2020

Couples Therapy During Coronavirus

Challenges and Opportunities

A clinician who's spent almost two years doing online couples therapy shares the tips and strategies she's found especially helpful. Read more

Article May 1, 2020

The stories in this issue are notable not only for their therapeutic wisdom, but also for their authors’ capacity to connect with us in a time of... Read more

Article May 1, 2020

Letters from Home

From Storytelling 2020
Elliott Connie

Finding hope in a hopeless situation. Read more

Article May 1, 2020

Broken Mirrors

From Storytelling 2020

When we can acknowledge the dark forces that reside within us. Read more

Article May 1, 2020

If the Dress Fits...

Sorting Through a Closet Full of Memories

When a mother and daughter are cut from different cloths, can they still hang in the same closet? Read more

Article March 5, 2020

Something’s afoot in the therapy world, and some clinicians will surely wrinkle their brows at it. Although it comes in various forms, the catchiest term for... Read more

Article March 5, 2020

Love & Grief

Finding Meaning in Loss

When a loved one dies, it’s easy to get stuck in your pain. But if you can find meaning in even the most senseless loss, you can do more than just get... Read more

Article March 5, 2020

Hanging It Up

When Should Therapists Retire?

What are the signs that it’s finally time for a therapist to stop seeing clients? Read more

Article March 5, 2020

Irish Whiskey

The Comfort of a Powerful Lineage

How our family lineages weave a connection of giving and taking and giving again. Read more

Video February 19, 2020

VIDEO: Peter Levine Shares a Personal Story About Trauma

What Does It Take to Ward Off Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder?

Among the first to fully realize that humans have an innate psychophysiological capacity for overcoming trauma, Peter Levine developed Somatic Experiencing, a... Read more

Video January 15, 2020

Couples therapist Susan Johnson explains how, by establishing a "secure base," to restore both an emotional and physical spark in a relationship. Read more

Article December 27, 2019

To Reveal or Not to Reveal

When the Therapist Has a Serious Illness

Each therapist who becomes seriously ill faces a weighty choice between silence and disclosure with clients. Read more

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