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VIDEO: Understanding Grief as an Antidote to Trauma
Gabor Maté on Making Sense of Troubling TimesThese days, many of us are feeling increasingly anxious and upset. But how do we know whether we're experiencing trauma, or just grieving? And how can we... Read more
Taking Vagal Virtual
Can Teletherapy Recreate Positive Social Engagement?I’ve begun to worry that in our headlong rush to embrace teletherapy, we’re going to train ourselves out of expecting the depth of connection and intimacy... Read more
Helping Clients in Toxic Relationships
How to Unravel Trauma BondsRyan Howes interviews Laura Copley, licensed professional counselor and owner of Aurora Counseling about toxic relationships. Read more
VIDEO: Making Talking About Race Your Work
A Therapist's Call to ActionToo many Black people are living in a wall-less prison, says therapist Ken Hardy, where they're constantly calibrating their lives based on the expectations of... Read more
How Can I Safely Reopen My Practice?
Five Clinicians Weigh InAs parts of the country start to open back up from COVID-19 lockdown measures, a therapist worries about the risk of seeing clients in person again. Five... Read more
Working with Conflict-Avoidant Men
A Three-Part Approach to Defusing ShameI’ve spent a long time doing therapy with conflict-avoidant men. Working with them isn’t always easy, but I’ve developed a three-part road map that’s... Read more
Five Things Seasoned Therapists Wish They'd Known
. . . And the One Question You Should Always Ask Your ClientsA great deal of what therapist's learn comes from experience, trial and error, and hours upon hours sitting across from clients. Five seasoned therapists share... Read more
VIDEO: The Dance of Healthy Connection
Sue Johnson on EFT and Attachment TheoryWhat does Attachment Theory tell us? That emotion is the most powerful force in the therapy room, says couples therapist Sue Johnson, developer of Emotionally... Read more
The Mentor Who Changed My Therapy Practice
…And How Two Little Words Changed EverythingMost clinicians need a mentor: someone who takes them under their wing and inspires them to be a better therapist. The five clinicians whose stories you’re... Read more
Helping Kids with School Refusal
A Polyvagal ApproachWhat do you do when kids get anxious, afraid, or angry at the prospect of going to school? Pediatric psychologist Mona Delahooke explains how Polyvagal Theory... Read more
VIDEO: Moving from Passive Allyship to Action
Three Things Therapists Can Do Right NowThe recent protests against racial injustice and police brutality have left many therapists wondering what they can do to be active forces for change in the... Read more
The Addict in All of Us
Gabor Maté's Unflinching VisionCanadian physician Gabor Maté believes that addictive behaviors are woven into the very fabric of our materialistic society. Read more
VIDEO: How to Help Clients with Overwhelming Emotions
Retaking Control of the Ship in the StormHelping hyperaroused clients learn to manage overwhelming emotions is like helping them steer a ship in stormy waters, says therapist and mindfulness... Read more
How Do I Make Phone Sessions Effective?
Five Clinicians Weigh InTeletherapy allows therapists to notice their clients' subtle expressions, movements, and gestures. But some clients prefer phone sessions, which can make... Read more
Homeschooling and the ADHD Child
Six Therapy Strategies for Busy ParentsWith summer camps cancelled and many schools indefinitely closed, a therapist shares six homeschooling strategies that have served him well in helping the... Read more
Managing Confidentiality
Three Things I Learned from My Small-Town PracticeWhen you practice in a rural town, sometimes it can feel like everyone is connected to each other. Instead of worrying about boundary and confidentiality... Read more
VIDEO: Creating a Safe Space to Talk about Racial Trauma
Self-Exploration, Soft Introductions, and Leaving a Door OpenHow can white clinicians create a safe space in therapy for clients of color to talk about racial trauma? And if clients don't bring it up, should the... Read more
Detours on the Fertility Journey
Helping Clients Navigate Their OptionsOver 48 million couples experience infertility every year, and over 20 percent of all pregnancies end in miscarriage. Although hope and love propel most people... Read more
A Black Therapist in America
Speaking Out Against Learned VoicelessnessBlack people know all too well that their daily experience of racism doesn’t matter unless it interferes with the lives of the white mainstream. As a result... Read more
Finding the Balance
How to Meet Stress with Tenderness during COVID-19During the pandemic, our clients’ relationships need special attention and nurturing. Sometimes that means helping them recalibrate what they can hold for... Read more
Lori Gottlieb on Fertility Counseling
Finding Strength and ResilienceThe bestselling author of Maybe You Should Talk to Someone shares her experience using a sperm donor to have a child, and how she helps clients with... Read more
Lost and Found
Scenes from a MiscarriageThe story of a miscarriage is often about crushed hope, but it can also bring unexpected possibility. Read more
We still don’t have a clear and reliable road map for navigating the unique grief that comes with losing a wanted pregnancy. Read more
Nine Simple Interventions for Depression
For Any Client, Any TimeIn challenging times, these simple sensorimotor interventions for depression can be easily used in sessions. Read more
Helping Black Men Access Mental Health Care
The Free Therapy Movement Breaks New GroundThe movement to offer more free therapy and expand access to treatment gains momentum. Read more
Meeting the Moment
The Importance of Risk in TherapyThe therapist’s office is a zone of creative adventure and unpredictability, where the most powerful moments often come out of the blue. Read more
How Private Practice Can Survive COVID-19
Discovering New Possibilities in a Time of UpheavalDiscovering new possibilities for private practice in a time of upheaval—and planning for more uncertainty. Read more
Wave Till You Can’t See Me
Lessons in Fear and SafetyLessons for a parent in fear and safety. Read more
A Family in Chaos
A Study of Dysfunction and ResilienceThe story of the Gavins—a family of 12 children, six of whom suffered from schizophrenia—sheds new light on the nature vs. nurture debate. Read more
Crossing Cultures
The Surprising Complexity of CountertransferenceA shared cultural understanding can be a powerful asset in therapy, adding a familiarity and depth to the exploration of countertransference. Read more