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VIDEO: Beginning Therapy with High-Conflict Couples
Tips from Ellyn Bader and Peter PearsonHighly distressed couples seek out help for immediate solutions for their pain and suffering. Why is tackling the issues head-on a big mistake for a therapist? Read more
The Rise of the Two-Dimensional Parent
Are Therapists Seeing a New Kind of Attachment?As we move slowly beyond the great recession, today’s young people are the first American generation in a long while expected to be less well off than their... Read more
The Power of Paying Attention
What Jon Kabat-Zinn Has Against SpiritualityJon Kabat-Zinn, one of the pioneers in mind-body medicine, prefers calling himself a student of Buddhist meditation to a Buddhist, and believes anything can be... Read more
Has the time come to consider whether the profound changes in our economy, technology, and culture over these last couple of decades have opened up a breach in... Read more
The Rise of the Two-Dimensional Parent
Are Therapists Seeing a New Kind of Attachment?We used to think that disordered attachment was the result of early parental neglect or abuse. But today, has a paradoxical mix of parental overinvolvement and... Read more
Bubble-Wrapping Our Children
The Perils of Overprotective ParentingWe've become so focused on keeping children safe that we exaggerate the dangers they face despite the fact that they’ve never been safer. Still, no amount of... Read more
Getting Unhooked
Connecting with Traumatized Kids Who Push Your ButtonsMost parents “loan” children their adult regulatory system beginning at birth. But developmentally traumatized teens have missed out on this opportunity... Read more
The Downside of Happiness
Beware of What You Wish ForAlthough happiness is widely beneficial, organizing one’s life around it can lead to a great deal of effort and time being spent unwisely. Trying too hard to... Read more
Bessel van der Kolk, a leading trauma therapist, takes on the New York Times. Read more
The Power of the Pen in Therapy
Some Journaling Exercises to Enhance Your WorkSome guidelines for bringing the creative power of therapeutic journaling into your work. Read more
Questions of Gender
A therapist struggles with the clinical choices he’s madeA therapist takes an unflinching look at a puzzling case that spanned 14 years, wondering if he made a wrong turn. Read more
The Tribal Classroom
Applying attachment theory in schoolsLou Cozolino believes that attachment theory and neuroscience may offer the key to transforming our troubled educational system. Read more
Side By Side
No creative artist is an islandAn investigation of some of history’s most famous creative teams leads to the conclusion that no artist is an island. Read more
Defying Nature’s Odds
Life is the grand exceptionFrom the first cell division to the final journey down the birth canal, risks and dangers abound. Read more
VIDEO: Adjusting Lifestyle Habits for Mental Health
Connecting the Dots between Biology and BrainworkIf you’ve got a client who frequently oversleeps, binges on junk food and alcohol, and passes up fresh air for hours in front of the television, there’s a... Read more
The Whole World Is Watching
Therapy and the TED Talk StageEarlier this year, therapist Michele Weiner-Davis spent hours in front of a camera, her husband patiently hitting the record button as she rehearsed for what... Read more
The Politics of PTSD
How a Diagnosis Battled Its Way into the DSMDuring Vietnam, there were proportionately far fewer reported cases of trauma on the actual battlefield than there'd been in previous wars. The primary reason... Read more
VIDEO: Engaging Kids who Hate Therapy
How to Talk to Kids in a Way They UnderstandConnecting with today’s youth doesn’t mean being able to recite Justin Bieber’s latest hit. According to Janet Edgette, author of Adolescent Therapy That... Read more
How to Make a Group Practice Work
The Challenge of Becoming the BossI’m finding myself unable to take on more clients due to a full schedule, but I still want to grow my practice and finances. Would starting a group practice... Read more
VIDEO: Unlocking the Emotional Brain
Confronting Self-Limiting BeliefsBruce Ecker shows how to apply the process of memory reconsolidation to bring about transformational change and therapeutic breakthroughs. Read more
VIDEO: Bringing the Family Into Trauma Treatment
Mary Jo Barrett on Family ConsultationsIn this brief video clip, Mary Jo explains why bringing the family into therapy should be our first stop when treating trauma. Read more
VIDEO: Somatic Tools for Self-Soothing
Peter Levine Describes How Somatic Experiencing Helps Clients Self-RegulateIn this brief video clip, Peter demonstrates a body awareness technique that includes loud, vibrating deep breaths to help clients minimize anxiety and... Read more
VIDEO: Helping Traumatized Clients Understand their Automatic Responses
Richard Schwartz Explains Why Panicked Trauma Responses are Also Defensive OnesIn this brief video clip, Richard explains how trauma survivors can have a dialogue with the damaged inner parts—the “Exiles”—by first consulting their... Read more
VIDEO: Helping Clients Integrate Past and Present
Bessel van der Kolk on Integration and Healing in Trauma TreatmentImagine the helplessness of being unable to distinguish painful past experiences from present ones. According to Bessel van der Kolk, author of The Body Keeps... Read more
VIDEO: Presencing Secure Attachment
An Experiential ApproachWhat keeps people stuck in destructive relationship patterns? While Attachment Theory has provided some answers as to how those patterns originate, many... Read more
VIDEO: A Paradoxical Approach to Panic
The First SessionWith years of experience treating anxiety-riddled clients, Reid Wilson, author of Don’t Panic, knows a thing or two about helping people rein in the... Read more
VIDEO: When Emotional Hurt Becomes Chronic Pain
How to Treat Chronic PainCoauthor of Freedom from Pain, Maggie has found that Attachment Theory is a useful framework for understanding the unreleased trauma that often lies at the... Read more
VIDEO: Stop Shooting the Messenger
The Case for Hearing Anxiety OutAs far as universal human experiences go, anxiety is usually seen as a heinous beast. Clients hate it and therapists offer ways to get rid of it—but not many... Read more
VIDEO: Attachment Work with Cut-Off Kids
Becoming Part of the Young Client’s StoryWhen Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy developer Daniel Hughes first started working with children who struggled with serious behavioral and emotional... Read more