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The Health Implications of Early Trauma
How Research into ACES is Shaping Our Understanding of Childhood AdversityWhile it's common knowledge that childhood trauma can have far-reaching consequences for adult mental health, its impact on adult physical health is less... Read more
The www.Addiction
Few of Us Can Resist the Seduction of the InternetHave you ever noticed how often you surf the net or check e-mail when you feel bored or restless or depressed, as if relief is just a click away? The Internet... Read more
The Mindful Internet User
It's About Knowing When to StopHow mindfulness can reduce the stress of multitasking and information overload. Read more
Doing What's Best for Mom and Dad
Helping Contentious Siblings Find Common CauseA parent's failing health can stir up a hornet's nest of trouble among adult siblings. Read more
Embracing Life, Facing Death
An interview with Irvin YalomFor existential therapist Irvin Yalom, even depth-oriented therapy doesn't go deep enough. Read more
Couples on the Brink
Stopping the Marriage-Go-RoundThis article first appeared in the March/April 2006 issue. Let’s face it: psychotherapy isn’t dramatic, and most therapists don’t rate high... Read more
In the rush to preserve marriages, therapists must also recognize that there are marriages that shouldn't be saved. Read more
The New Monogamy
How Far Should We Go?Whether we like it or not, today's couples feel far less encumbered by the legal, social, and moral strictures of traditional marriage and its obligations... Read more
Foreign Affairs
Infidelity Has Different Meanings In Different CulturesMy Parisian colleague was shocked to learn that American therapists typically encourage couples not only to confess their affairs, but also to share the... Read more
After the Storm
The Affair In RetrospectAs therapists, we have an unquenchable desire to find happy ending for troubled clients, especially those weathering the crisis of infidelity. But what happens... Read more
Seeking the Silence
Wilderness Solitude Opens New Doorways into the SelfAt an age when many are sticking even closer to their couches and remote controls, a restless soul decides to seize his last chance to explore the wilderness... Read more
Beyond the Diet Mentality
Empowering Clients Through Attuned EatingAttuned eating can take people beyond the dead end of the diet mentality. Read more
The Mindful Swimmer
Staying Afloat in the Rough Seas of RelationshipMindfulness offers tools for navigating the stormy seas of a troubled relationship. Read more
Planting Season
A Therapist Searches for a Simpler Life"I realized that I'd never succeed as a therapist here unless I loosened up my customary boundaries between my professional and personal selves." Read more
Hoop Dreams
On the Mean Streets of Dallas, Therapy’s a Whole New Ball GameA private practice therapist recalls his college days as a basketball player in a way he never dreamed of. Read more
Breathing Lessons
Unlearning the Mindset of TherapyWhile learning Qigong, a psychotherapist unlearns the Western mindset that has been keeping him, and his clients, stuck. Read more
The Mars & Venus Myth
Uncovering the Stealth Assault on FeminismThe Lawrence Summers controversy just brought to the surface the stealth assault on feminism that's reviving gender stereotypes of the 1950s. Read more
Honoring the Mission
Don’t Be too Quick to Ease the Caregiver’s BurdenWithout the emphasis at the outset on identifying, honoring, and sustaining the caregiver's mission, you're unlikely to ever progress. Read more
Failure to Launch
The Struggle to Leave Home in the 21st CenturyThe difficulty young people have leaving home is producing confusion amongst parents and their children. Read more
The Stages of Trauma Recovery
Principles of Effective TreatmentMy intent in sharing my story was to help therapists understand the needs of a trauma victim and to suggest techniques and strategies to meet these needs at... Read more
Between Gay and Straight
Honoring a Client's Multiple IdentitiesA middle-aged man facing the challenge of coming out explores the uncharted territory of a "mixed-orientation marriage" Read more
Shame-O-Phobia
Why Men Fear TherapyShame is the least understood dimension of men's inner experience—by both men themselves and the people who live with them. This lack of understanding may be... Read more
Lions Without a Cause
Men's Animal Instincts Don't Fit the Modern WorldLet's face it: love means something quite different to men and women. A look at other species of social mammals offers some remarkable insights into the... Read more
Women Treating Men
Therapy across the Gender DivideGender shapes relationship from the very first moment therapist meets client, especially when the client is male and the therapist is female. Read more
Holding Your Ground with Narcissistic Clients
What to do when your hot buttons get pushedSome practical guidelines for handling confrontive and critical clients. Read more
Listening to your inner therapist * Can we admit that therapy is sometimes harmful? * Botox's interference with emotions * The fearlessness--criminality link ... Read more
Going, Going, Gone
A young boy finds his Charon for the final journeyAn ill child finds his place among a group of other boys in aging men's bodies. Read more
Take a Breath
Using Yoga to Create a Sense of Well-Being in Your OfficeA variety of easy-to-use yogic breathing techniques can add a new dimension to treatment with depressed and anxious clients. Read more
Addicted to Sex
There are no shortcuts in treating SAEffective work with sex addicts must address deep-seated attachment wounds. Commentary by Joe Kort. Read more