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Alone without Loneliness
Discovering the satisfactions of single-womanhoodA young woman who's on her own for the first time discovers the difference between being alone and being lonely. Read more
The Divided Self
Inside the World of 21st Century TeensFor decades before and after World War II, children all over the United States hung out, had slumber parties, made crank phone calls, and played sports... Read more
Lost in Electronica
Today's Media Culture is Leaving Boys at a Loss for WordsThe consolation prize for boys who feel deeply but can't express or even decipher their own emotions is the universe of "electronica," a womb of... Read more
10 Best-Ever Anxiety-Management Techniques
There are Effective Alternatives to Medication“I don’t think I want to live if I have to go on feeling like this.” I hear this remark all too often from anxiety sufferers. They say it... Read more
Beyond the Consulting Room
Therapists as catalysts of social changeToo much is at stake these days for us to take refuge in our practices after the election. In such challenging times, therapists need to create for themselves... Read more
Journey to Rwanda
A therapist Confronts the UnthinkableSome years ago, Rwanda was the hellish scene of one of the most ferocious genocides in history. A therapist who traveled there reports on what it's like to... Read more
The Bridge
Facing disaster in your own backyardWhen disaster strikes close to home, the emotional shock waves make business as usual impossible for both therapists and clients. Read more
Breaking Through
Poet David Whyte Invites Us to the Edge of DiscoveryPoet David Whyte offers an idiosyncratic fusion of verse, myth, story, and personal charisma, demonstrating to audiences all over the world that psychology... Read more
Enlisting the ODD Child
How to move beyond the power struggleHelping kids with ODD begins with getting past the many myths surrounding the disorder. Read more
Fantasy in Couples Therapy
Is Encouraging Sexual Fantasies Playing with Fire?Many therapists assume that if they help couples improve their relationships, the improvement will naturally lead to a rewarding erotic life. But what if... Read more
Fostering the Moral Imagination
Empathy is a radical actIn a world where differences between people have become increasingly demonized, more than ever, the therapist's job is to help people expand their circle of... Read more
Too Much of a Good Thing?
Risk-Averse Parents Do Their Children No FavorsThis article first appeared in the September/October 2008 issue. Q: I’m seeing more parents who live in safe, middle-class communities and protect their... Read more
The Healing Power of Play
Helping the traumatized child find safety againThe child therapist approaches the child who can't play by introducing play activities one step at the time. Read more
Sleepless in America
Making it Through the Night in a Wired WorldIf a vast conspiracy were afoot to create an entire civilization of insomniacs, it would operate pretty much the way our society does now. In a nonstop... Read more
1. Ride the Rhythms of Rest Fine-tune your circadian rhythms with exposure to morning light. Regularly engage in rest breaks and practices. Consider daily... Read more
Receiving with Grace
Teaching Reluctant Seniors to Accept Help"Many of my older clients and their family caregivers resist accepting help from others. How can I get them to receive the care they need?" Read more
Using one's own anger may be the key to success with difficult teen clients. Commentary by Janet Sasson Edgette Read more
Blood and Guts
Violence is Central to Some of the Year's Best FilmsWhile lions and sharks go into frenzy at the smell of blood, at the sight of blood, moviegoers seem to experience a heightening of all emotions, sometimes... Read more
A father and son reflect on a life path that isn't about money Read more
Brain to Brain
Applying the Wisdom of Neuroscience in Your PracticeThis article first appeared in the September/October 2008 issue. Anyone who’s ever worked with trauma survivors knows the therapeutic challenge of... Read more
It's a Jungle in There
We're Not as Evolved as We ThinkThe human brain is an anachronistic menagerie that confronts the psychotherapist with the challenge of treating a human, a horse, and a crocodile, all... Read more
Practice Makes Perfect
There's No Shortcut to Lasting ChangeMany clients believe that the therapy process all by itself will magically improve their lives and relationships. We must help them recognize that without... Read more
Darkness and Light
Evoking the Flip Sides of the Hollywood Dream MachineTwo hugely successful films, released on the same weekend this summer, revealed the flip side of the Hollywood experience. Read more
Rolling the Rock
Why would anyone choose a career in community mental health today?Beset by chronic budgetary constraints, invasive regulations, and insufficient respect from society at large, community mental health today seems a Sisyphean... Read more
Beyond the One-Way Mirror
A New Approach to Reviving Public Sector PsychotherapyA determined family therapist tries to revive public sector psychotherapy using Thomas Edison as his role model. Read more
Life, Death, Madness
Confronting the Raw Reality of the Emergency DepartmentAn emergency room social worker's day revolves around handling emotional crises of strangers facing terrible moments of their lives. Read more
Dear Michael
Michael White taught us how to retell our life storiesMichael White, who died suddenly in April 2008 at 59, devoted his life to helping people find the kernels of personal courage, self-respect, and emotional... Read more
The Economics of Romance
Pre-nups and other dirty wordsPrenuptials may seem unromantic and focused on worst-case scenarios, but they can clarify critical issues and avoid problems down the road. Read more
Eros and Aging
Is good enough sex right for you?Despite marketing blitz, Viagra hasn't turned out to be the neat remedy for erectile dysfunction for men over 50 that was promised. Can therapists offer aging... Read more