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In the Bedroom
Countering the destructive effects of trauma on intimacyA book review of Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy with Trauma Survivors: Strengthening Attachment Bonds by Susan M. Johnson Read more
The Slippery Slope
Violating the Ultimate Therapeutic Taboo"I doubt that I would fit many people's image of a therapist who would violate sexual boundaries with a client. Before it happened, I certainly did not fit my... Read more
Divorce Court
Weighing the latest evidenceA book review of For Better or For Worse: Divorce Reconsidered by E. Mavis Hetherington and John Kelly Read more
Cognitive-Behaviorism Comes of Age
Grounding symptomatic treatment in an existential approachHelping her make a connection between her emotions and the traumatic event was an important milestone for Celeste, because it enabled her to viscerally... Read more
A Guide Through the Darkness
An ambitious new book offers a road map for depressed clientsBook reviews of The Noonday Demon; Short-Term Therapy for Long-Term Change; Whispers from the East; and The Shattered Self. Read more
No Contest
How a therapist learned to listenA take-charge clinician meets his match and finally learns to listen to his clients-and himself. Read more
Assessing the New 'Energy' Therapies
We still don't know why they work, or if they really doA book review Read more
Beeper in the Bedroom
Technology has become a therapeutic issueAs the digital revolution permeates and alters our lives, therapists are increasingly called upon to become the guides to a balance between the allure of... Read more
Teacher as Healer
The challenges of the classroom cast the therapist's role in a new lightA good education is preventive medicine. It strengthens one's mental, emotional and spiritual immune system. Read more
Tarnished Crown
Discovering momma and the meaning of lifeTherapists who can surf the transference and countertransference of chronic disappointment by being mindful of their own inner states can find creative... Read more
Divided Loyalty
The Challenge of Stepfamily LifeStepfamilies enact unique morality plays with plots involving, betrayal, heroic commitment and Solomon-like discernment. They Illuminate like no other family... Read more
Tantra at Home
Modern Tantric techniques to improve anyone's sex lifeFrom the March/April 1999 issue Heighten Awareness of All the Senses William Masters and Virginia Johnson introduced to the West a technique called... Read more
Rx for Passion
Antidepressants needn't depress the libidoFrom the March/April 1999 issue As a psychiatrist and couples therapist, some days it seems as if I never talk about anything but sex. And increasingly, I... Read more
War Stories
Helping Old Soldiers Find the Will to LiveHelping old soldiers find the will to fight Read more
What Textbooks Don't Tell You
Acknowledging the complexities of real-life therapyAcknowledging the complexities of real-life therapy Read more
The Dog Ate It
When clients don't do their homeworkHow to get clients to do their homework assignments Read more
Riding Out the Storm
A therapist's guide to surviving burnoutEverything you ever wanted to know about surviving burnout Read more
Nunna Yer Beeswax
No-talk Therapy with AdolescentsWhat to do when the standard techniques of joining provoke furious silence Read more
The Shirt Off My Back
Losing control of your story can be a terrifying experienceLosing control of your story can be one of life's most terrifying experiences. Read more
Manners Matter
Respecting the etiquette of effective psychotherapyFrom the July/August 1997 issue Whenever I talk about my belief in the link between etiquette and successful psychotherapy, people exclaim “Manners?! You... Read more
A River Runs Through It
When a community tries its best and fails, then what?From the July/August 1997 issue People in North Dakota insist that the land is so flat, they can spot an anthill a half mile away. Local lore says that... Read more
New Science for Psychotherapy
Can we predict how therapy will progress?Psychologists Robert-Jay Green and Paul D. Werner of the California School of Professional Psychology insist that family therapists who don't rethink their... Read more
Truth and Reconciliation?
Healing the wounds of apartheidFrom the May/June 1997 issue “Ordinary South Africans are determined that the past be known, the better to insure that it is not repeated... Read more
Fierce Creatures
How I nearly lost my innocence in La-La LandFrom the May/June 1997 issue I have just completed my first, and very likely my last, close encounter with the fierce business that has occupied my... Read more
The Anatomy of Resilience
New research reveals what helps people shake off adversityWe have clues about what makes some people prevail over psychological adversity... Read more
The Mission Memory
Furnishing our Present with Specters of the PastEvery response, belief, action, and emotion can be seen as a wave of memory. The present is gauged by how much it joins or fails our memories. So what is the... Read more
A jazz drummer tunes in to how a couple organizes time Read more
Oh, How Happy We Will Be
The Future of HealthcareThe pharmaceutical industry spends $10 billion on promotion every year. Is it so surprising that talk therapy is disappearing beneath the onslaught of today's... Read more
Breathing Room
Creating a Zone of Safety and Connection for Angry Black TeensTherapy is about healing and also about promoting connection. The healing starts when we lance the wounds our clients bring in, help them vent their pain and... Read more