Case Study
The Mindful Swimmer
Staying Afloat in the Rough Seas of RelationshipMindfulness offers tools for navigating the stormy seas of a troubled relationship. Read more
Breathing Lessons
Unlearning the Mindset of TherapyWhile learning Qigong, a psychotherapist unlearns the Western mindset that has been keeping him, and his clients, stuck. Read more
Between Gay and Straight
Honoring a Client's Multiple IdentitiesA middle-aged man facing the challenge of coming out explores the uncharted territory of a "mixed-orientation marriage" Read more
Addicted to Sex
There are no shortcuts in treating SAEffective work with sex addicts must address deep-seated attachment wounds. Commentary by Joe Kort. Read more
Educating Theresa
Sometimes therapy means total commitmentTreating depression requires a commitment to working with mind, body, and spirit. Read more
Helping Kids Take Charge
How to get young people to turn their problems into coping skillsTurning problems to be diagnosed and medication into skills to be taught. Read more
EMDR helps a young Iraq War vet and his wife emerge from the nightmare of his war experience. Read more
Erickson's Legacy
Strategic therapy rests on skillful information-gatheringStrategic therapy is less about technique than a search for the information that'll illuminate the solution to your client's problem. Read more
Learning Forgiveness
Peacemaking Skills For CouplesGiven that most couples never manage to change each other very much, teaching them to forgive each other's imperfections is a vastly underutilized therapeutic... Read more
Reversing Chronic Pain
Ten Steps to Reduce SufferingMore and more chronic pain patients are being referred to therapists after their physicians conclude that they show every appearance of being healed. Read more
Alone without Loneliness
Discovering the satisfactions of single-womanhoodA young woman who's on her own for the first time discovers the difference between being alone and being lonely. Read more
Fantasy in Couples Therapy
Is Encouraging Sexual Fantasies Playing with Fire?Many therapists assume that if they help couples improve their relationships, the improvement will naturally lead to a rewarding erotic life. But what if... Read more
The Healing Power of Play
Helping the traumatized child find safety againThe child therapist approaches the child who can't play by introducing play activities one step at the time. Read more
Using one's own anger may be the key to success with difficult teen clients. Commentary by Janet Sasson Edgette Read more
Eros and Aging
Is good enough sex right for you?Despite marketing blitz, Viagra hasn't turned out to be the neat remedy for erectile dysfunction for men over 50 that was promised. Can therapists offer aging... Read more
The Worry Hill
A Child-friendly Approach to OCDTherapists helping children confront OCD face a formidable obstacle: helping their young clients get beyond their immediate terror in the hope of reaping... Read more
How Clients 'Do' Their Problems
NLP Can Help You Do the "Briefest" TherapyCareful attention to body language and nonverbal cues can dramatically streamline the process of therapeutic change. Read more
Three Tenets of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy
Discovering Our Values by Confronting Our FearsLearning to accept our fears as guideposts to who we really want to be. Read more
Finding Flow
Embracing your worst can bring out your bestLearning to enhance performance by embracing doubt and fear. Read more
The Teenager Who Was a Liar
Helping a family redefine its storyFacing the challenge of working with a dissembling adolescent in a blended family means changing the "official story" of the problem. Read more
Like a Ghost
Using EMDR to Revive a Traumatized Vet’s MarriageEMDR helps a young Irag War vet and his wife emerge from the nightmare of his war experience. Read more
A Complicated Grieving
Death, guilt, and anger are an explosive mix"Complicated grief" resulting from unresolved guilt, anger, shame, and regret can fester on for many years. Read more
Phone Sex and the Rabbi
Discovering the Normal in the DeviantA therapist works with a rabbi struggling with his mental health and developing false relationships with phone sex operators. Read more
Sexual Heroin
Variant Arousal Patterns are an Obstacle to IntimacyAn erotic fetish disrupts a man's sexual history as well as his current relationship Read more
The New 'Mixed' Marriage
Working with a couple when one partner is gayIn 2004, the outing of New Jersey Governor James McGreever brought widespread attention to the new "mixed marriage ." But the issues such couples struggle with... Read more
Undercurrents
When Therapy StallsWhen therapy stalls, it's usually time to investigate the undercurrents that nobody wants to talk about. Read more
Beyond Viagra
Why the Promise of Cure Far Exceeds the RealityDespite all the hoopla, the dropout rate for Viagra exceeds 40 percent. A case explores the aspects of middle-aged sexuality that no drug can address. Read more
Beyond Acceptance
It's Never Too Late to Open Your HeartA woman who wants to learn a new way to be with her mother teaches her therapist what it means to step out of his own comfort zone. Read more
Bad Couples Therapy
Getting Past the Myth of Therapist NeutralityHere are the mistakes both beginning and experienced couples therapists commit, and how you can avoid them. Read more