Clinician's Quandary
My Client Says Teletherapy Isn’t Helping
Five Therapists Weigh InA therapist is offering teletherapy during the coronavirus pandemic, and it's working well for most of her clients. But her anxious client Sam has repeatedly... Read more
My Client Gets Distracted During Teletherapy, Part 2
Five More Clinicians Weigh InClinicians weigh in on how to keep therapy work on track during the telehealth sessions. Read more
My Client Gets Distracted During Teletherapy
Five Clinicians Weigh InMarcia's therapist has switched to doing teletherapy. But as a single mother of two adolescent girls all quarantining in a small apartment, sessions have... Read more
My New Normal, Part 2
Therapeutic Discoveries in the Time of CoronavirusThe COVID-19 pandemic has radically shifted how almost every therapist works nowadays, in ways both expected and unexpected. Although we’re all in this... Read more
My New Normal
How Our Work Has Changed Since CoronavirusThe COVID-19 pandemic has radically shifted how almost every therapist works nowadays, in ways both expected and unexpected. Although we’re all in this... Read more
Yikes, I’m Attracted to My Client
Five Clinicians Weigh InA therapist finds her client attractive and says their conversations sometimes border on flirtatious. She says she'd never act on these feelings, but worries... Read more
My Angry Client is Getting to Me
Five Clinicians Weigh InMark has anger issues, and his therapist finds herself getting extremely reactive when he loses his temper in therapy. Recently, he called her “a joke” and... Read more
When One Partner in Couples Therapy Has Given Up
Five Clinicians Weigh InA therapist is working with a couple in which one partner is clearly disengaged in therapy. She shows up and says she’s interested in improving the... Read more
Addressing Vicarious Trauma
Five Clinicians Weigh InA new client who survived a harrowing car crash is going through a deep depression. When she recounts her story, her therapist feels unusually affected, as if... Read more
How Do I Bring Up My Client’s Rigid Perfectionism?
Five Clinicians Weigh InA client sees his perfectionism as an advantage, even though it ramps up his anxiety, exacerbates his sense of shame, and keeps him living a very rigid life... Read more
Addressing the Idea of Meds with a Depressed Client
Five Clinicians Weigh InSandra has been struggling with depression for many years. A psychiatrist has prescribed her an antidepressant, but she’s told her therapist she doesn’t... Read more
Will a No-Suicide Contract Help My Client Stay Safe?
Four Clinicians Weigh InA new clinician is working with a client who’s expressed some suicidality at times. She's worried about him and thinks it might be a good idea to have him... Read more
How Do I Get Clients to Engage in Work Between Sessions?
Five Clinicians Weigh InA therapist recommends exercises like journaling prompts and guided mediations that she feels would benefit her clients between sessions. Although they seem... Read more
I’m Feeling Burned Out
Five Clinicians Give Their AdviceRecently, a therapist has found herself losing steam. She mentally checks out when clients are talking, and constantly feels exhausted. She worries this... Read more
My Client Ghosted Me
Five Clinicians Give Their TakeSara had been attending weekly therapy for three months. Her therapist thought they'd developed a strong bond, but Sara has missed her last two sessions. Her... Read more
Is It Ever Okay to Break Confidentiality If I Know My Client Is Dating an Abuser?
Five Clinicians Give Their TakeDiedre was widowed about three years ago, but was excited to tell her therapist about a man she's started dating. She's very happy. As her therapist heard... Read more
My Teenage Client’s Parents Say He’s Depressed, But He Disagrees
Five Clinicians Give Their TakeFourteen-year-old client Tyler’s parents brought him to therapy because they say he rarely engages with classmates or teachers, isn’t interested in... Read more
My Client is Being Bullied and Her School Won’t Help
Five Clinicians Give Their TakeRaisa is a sophomore in high school, and tells her therapist that the girls in her class are bullying her with insults like “slut” and “whore.” Her... Read more
My Clients Are Asking Personal Questions
Five Clinicians Give Their TakeA therapist works from his home office, which means clients sometimes observe elements of his personal life. He's had clients ask about his electric car... Read more
Should I Keep One Partner’s Secret in Couples Therapy?
Five Clinicians Give Their TakeMark and his wife, Nicole, have been in couples therapy for almost six months. But Mark recently requested an individual session, where he revealed he recently... Read more
I Accepted a Gift from My Client
Five Clinicians Give Their Take on What to Do NowAsha recently gave her therapist a homemade necklace, which he accepted, thinking it innocuous enough. Now, she brings it up almost every session... Read more
My Client Hasn’t Paid Me but Still Wants to Meet
Five Clinicians Give Their TakeShould you do when your client is behind on their session payments? Five clinicians weigh in on this Clinician's Quandary. Read more
My Clients and I Use the Same Dating Apps
Five Clinicians Give Their TakeA therapist recently joined a few online dating apps after finding herself newly single. She's seen several clients come up in these apps, and suspects they've... Read more
My Client Invited Me to a Family Barbecue
Five Clinicians Give Their TakeA therapist recently moved to a new town and discovered that his client's daughter attends the same school as his son. The client recently... Read more
My Client Keeps Checking His Phone! (Part Two)
Five More Clinicians Give Their TakeOur last Clinician’s Quandary received an overwhelming number of responses. Here are a few more that didn’t make it into Part One but offer other useful... Read more
My Client Keeps Checking His Phone During Sessions
Five Clinicians Give Their Take on This Tricky Clinical ScenarioSometimes during sessions, Jonathan checks his phone for emails or updates, even though his therapist has asked him not to. She suspects Jonathan's... Read more
My Client Uses Me in Inappropriate Hypothetical Examples
Six Clinicians Give Their Take on This Tricky Clinical ScenarioA male client uses his therapist in hypothetical examples, which the therapist finds inappropriate. Recently, when they were discussing healthy dating habits... Read more
My Client is Moving Overseas to Marry a Man She's Never Met
Five Clinicians Give Their Take on This Tricky Clinical ScenarioDiane has just announced she intends to move overseas to marry a man she recently met online. This raises an alarm for her therapist, but he's unsure about... Read more