Family Matters
The Silent Treatment
What I Wish I Could Tell My First TherapistA teenage boy being bullied at school experiences a life-saving version of manhood with a patient, quiet therapist. Read more
Grandma Chin's Funeral
Reflections on Grief and BelongingA bicultural daughter of immigrants struggles to make sense of her identity as she mourns a grandmother she barely knew. Read more
A Monogamish Love Triangle
The Painful Geometry of an Open RelationshipA botched foray into polyamory leaves a woman feeling more singularly herself. Read more
Wrestling with a Daughter's Faith
An Agnostic Mother Learns the Challenge of True AcceptanceA family with stark religious differences finds its way. Read more
The Anxious Warrior
Fighting Fear with Krav MagaAn anxious mom steps out of her fortress of solitude and onto the martial-arts mat. Read more
Just This, Nothing Next
Facing Old Age with Trepidation and GraceGetting old is often a surprise, even when we’ve spent decades trying to get comfortable with the vicissitudes of aging. Read more
The Art of Dating Your Ex
A Therapist Finds Love Where She Least Expects ItWhat would you do differently if you could rekindle love with your ex? Read more
Hunting for Harry
Can a Lost Marriage Be Retrieved?When losing your spouse in a bookstore helps you find perspective. Read more
Drowning in Debris
A Daughter Faces Her Mother’s HoardingWhen a hoarding mother won’t face her illness, what choice does a daughter have? Read more
Far From Home
An Immigrant’s Search for Belonging"Gohyang" is a Korean word that means "hometown" but translates to so much more. Read more
Love Scrabble
An Evening with My Wife's BoyfriendPlaying a traditional boardgame in a nontraditional romantic arrangement. Read more
Sweet Surrender
Ice Cream, Fatherhood, and the Meaning of LifeA tale about fatherhood and the pleasures of ice cream. Read more
Unhappy Campers
When a Guys’ Weekend Goes SouthA nightmare camping trip exposes the limits—and possibilities—of male bonding. Read more
Whose Mom Is It Anyway?
Learning to Love My Mother’s CaregiverA daughter’s resentment gives way to a lesson in unconditional love. Read more
The Diary Keeper
A Father Discovers What Matters MostAs time rushes forward, a diary promises the chance to slow things down. Read more
Four Simple Ingredients
Lessons on Baking with MatthewFour simple ingredients will become bread, whether you do everything right or not. The result may not be perfect, but it doesn’t have to be. Read more
When Therapists Blame Themselves
Using Regret to Deepen Our WorkMost therapists struggle with guilt and self-blame related to their work. Thankfully, there are ways to leverage these feelings so we can grow from them. Read more
Moving in Synchrony
The Collective Tug of FamilySometimes the road to connection involves a painful separation. Read more
Hanging Out with Dick Van Dyke
A Lesson in Stepping UpAn encounter with a superstar teaches a young woman about courage. Read more
Something Close to Warmth
A Daughter's Search for MeaningFinding solace after the death of an absent father. Read more
Relearning Parenthood
When Children Reach Adulthood, What Then?When our kids no longer need us to be problem solvers, what do we become? Read more
Rhythm Guitar
Stepping Out of a Big Brother's ShadowFinding harmony in a difficult sibling relationship. Read more
The Unbearable Heaviness of Being
Learning to Celebrate a New ShapeRefusing to be defined by others can sometimes require an unexpected catalyst. Read more
The Wonder of Mom’s World
Discovering Egypt over a Cup of TeaThe ordinary moments of life reveal the true wonders of a mother–daughter relationship. Read more
Wave Till You Can’t See Me
Lessons in Fear and SafetyLessons for a parent in fear and safety. Read more
If the Dress Fits...
Sorting Through a Closet Full of MemoriesWhen a mother and daughter are cut from different cloths, can they still hang in the same closet? Read more
Irish Whiskey
The Comfort of a Powerful LineageHow our family lineages weave a connection of giving and taking and giving again. Read more
Hold My Hand
Calming the Little Girl Inside MeA recently divorced mother learns to confront a lifelong fear on her own. Read more
The Family Album
Growing Up in the Shadow of DepressionA troubled father casts a mysterious shadow over a little girl’s world. Read more