The Therapy Beat
A Technophobic Therapist and COVID-19
United in UncertaintyIn the last few weeks, as the specter of contagion has rapidly grown more ominous with each news cycle, an unthinkable professional reality has emerged for... Read more
Reflections on Remote Work with Clients
New Lessons on the Space Between UsAs a therapist, I've always liked to work a certain way, in person, face to face in my cozy office. But when the coronavirus hit and I repurposed a guest... Read more
Compassion During Quarantine
A Simple Practice for Our Clients and OurselvesI particularly like the suggestion to use the time we spend washing our hands during this pandemic to build up mindful compassion in ourselves. So, rather than... Read more
Love & Grief
Finding Meaning in LossWhen a loved one dies, it’s easy to get stuck in your pain. But if you can find meaning in even the most senseless loss, you can do more than just get... Read more
The Path to Clinical Confidence
More Training Isn't Always the AnswerResearch shows that confidence isn’t always tied to skills, ability, capacity, or even higher intelligence. So what does make us feel self-assured in our... Read more
Spearheaded by high school students and supported by some influential adults, a movement is underway to mandate a limited number of mental health days as part... Read more
Something’s afoot in the therapy world, and some clinicians will surely wrinkle their brows at it. Although it comes in various forms, the catchiest term for... Read more
A Need for Speed?
How Therapists Can Meet a Growing DemandThe push in popular culture to raise awareness about mental health means more and more people are seeking help. With resources limited, often where they’re... Read more
The Warm Handoff
Therapists’ Expanding Role in HealthcareIn a country where one in five primary care patients has a diagnosable behavioral health issue, setting up doctors and therapists to work hand in hand may be... Read more
VIDEO: Helping Teen Clients Make Good Decisions
...And What to Do When They Talk About Risky BehaviorAre teen clients entitled to confidentiality? How should therapists discuss confidentiality with their teen clients? What’s the therapist’s role... Read more
VIDEO: Doing Mindfulness Work with Kids
Two Techniques You Can Try Out TodayMindfulness specialist Chris Willard explains the difference between mindfulness work with kids and adults, and shares two techniques you can use today with... Read more
The Medication Question
Do We Still Need Therapy?Americans have a history of valuing quick-fix solutions to difficult problems. But the simplistic psychopharmacological approach to depressive disorders... Read more
VIDEO: Facing Difficult Emotions
Tara Brach on the Power of Deliberate PracticeOur brain has hundreds of strategies for resisting emotional pain. But according to psychologist and renowned Buddhist Tara Brach, resisting pain... Read more
VIDEO: Doing Your Best Work with LGBTQ Clients
The Myth of Sex Addiction, Common Mistakes, and MoreIs the sex addiction model doing more harm than good? What's the difference between sexual orientation and gender identity? And what are the most common... Read more
The Inner Selfie
A Technique for Guiding Young People Toward Self DiscoveryIt’s simply a way of talking about our internal sense of self, our inner strength and wisdom. It can help young clients down-regulate, guide them to inhabit... Read more
Stealthy Change, Healthy Change
Three Ways to Practice PresenceDuring my internship after graduate school, I worked as therapist at an intensive out-patient eating disorder (ED) clinic. One of the patients, Amber, was a... Read more
The Wonder of an Unexpected Alliance
A Therapist's Surprise Connection with Her ClientBy Christina Emanuel - Ryan’s reputation arrived before he did: brilliant, oppositional, angry, a general pain in the butt, and autistic. Over the years, he... Read more
VIDEO: The Power of Predictability
The Cornerstone of a Strong Therapeutic AllianceProviding familiarity and predictability is one of our greatest tools in therapy, and can provide much-needed comfort to clients who aren't used to it... Read more
Saving My Younger Self - January/February 2020
A Therapist Finds Her MissionAn urban school psychologist discovers the power of her own story of childhood trauma to inspire the kids she serves. Read more
The Sabbatical
Discovering My Self on a Car LotAfter an unusual break from practice, a burnt-out young clinician learns to finally feel at home in the therapist’s chair. Read more
To Reveal or Not to Reveal
When the Therapist Has a Serious IllnessEach therapist who becomes seriously ill faces a weighty choice between silence and disclosure with clients. Read more
Couples Therapy Goes Public
A New TV Series Pulls Back the CurtainA bold new TV series captures the raw reality of couples therapy—for both clients and therapists. Read more
The pace of our daily schedules can make it hard to look up from our appointment apps and ponder the bigger picture: Why are we doing this thing called... Read more
In Search of New Ideas
My Evolution as a TherapistA therapist reflects on a key lesson from his long career: clients don’t necessarily need new answers to their questions—they need new questions. Read more
Our Calling
A Wounded Healer’s JourneyAs therapists, our job is to do our best for our clients. But even our best efforts can’t always ensure that therapy will help, or even that we don’t do... Read more
VIDEO: The Self-Compassion Approach to Trauma Treatment
Creative Strategies That Dig DeeperIt’s important to honor all of your client’s inner parts in therapy. But accessing them to fully engage in healing work isn’t always easy. Here, trauma... Read more
My Nightmare Client, My Greatest Gift
Sometimes Our "Worst" Clients Are Our Best TeachersMy young client, Brian, can reduce even confident mid-life adults to an infantile puddle, one provocative comment at a time. He's a therapist's nightmare... Read more
VIDEO: Handling Microaggressions in Therapy
An Eight-Step Process for Talking About It With Your ClientsLet's say your client lets a microaggression slip during a session. Do you bring it up? Therapist and author Anatasia Kim shares her eight-step process for... Read more
Therapist Peer Groups, the "Emotional Lifeboat"
Doing Self-Care by Yourself Isn't Always EnoughIn the sea of trauma that surrounds us in our daily lives and in our offices, self-care is a life jacket. But collective trauma needs a collective... Read more
Can Therapists Help Save the Planet?
Moving from Climate Complicity to ActionAn anthropologist’s daughter, I came of age on Upolu, Samoa, living by a turquoise lagoon in an indigenous village and kinship group that formally adopted my... Read more