
In The Therapy Room
True tales and lessons from the therapist’s chairVoices of Reason
Empowering clients to alter their internal experiencesThe case of a young man hearing voices shows how even problems that first appear to be extreme can be resolved by empowering clients to alter subtle aspects of... Read more
VIDEO: After Infidelity: Focus on the Feelings, Not the Facts
How Understanding the Desires HelpsWhat’s the true nature of your feelings for your lover? An honest answer to that question is what a therapist needs in order to help a couple decide how to... Read more
Cure or Control?
Depression as a Chronic ConditionEvidence continues to accumulate that many people with depression suffer bouts of it all their lives, even after a good response to therapy. So what if we give... Read more
The Power of Small Changes
A Step-by-Step Approach to Treating Depression: An Interview with Judith BeckRelapse prevention begins in the first session, when we tell clients that we want to help them become their own therapists. Read more
The Power of How
Helping Depressed Clients Make Better Choices: An Interview with Michael YapkoOne of the most useful ways of understanding depression is the stress generation model, based on the idea that depressed people need better skills and... Read more
Enduring recovery from obsessive compulsive disorder means riding out the demands of an inner bully. Read more
Get Out of My Life!
Working with Cut-off Family Members in the Consulting RoomHelping families heal cutoffs is painstakingly delicate work, with a high risk for stumbling over buried land mines. Read more
Getting Unhooked
Connecting with Traumatized Kids Who Push Your ButtonsMost parents “loan” children their adult regulatory system beginning at birth. But developmentally traumatized teens have missed out on this opportunity... Read more
VIDEO: Somatic Tools for Self-Soothing
Peter Levine Describes How Somatic Experiencing Helps Clients Self-RegulateIn this brief video clip, Peter demonstrates a body awareness technique that includes loud, vibrating deep breaths to help clients minimize anxiety and... Read more
Beyond Chemistry
Exploring Our Relationship with Our MedsThe chemical effect of psychoactive meds is only part of their impact. In fact, people often develop complex relationships with the pills they take. Read more
The Meds of the Future
Waiting for the Next Magic PillDoes our growing understanding of the brain and the prospect of further scientific discoveries mean there’s a new generation of magical pills on the horizon? Read more
Letting Go of Hate
How to help clients change unconscious responsesMany well-intentioned therapists have suggested that their clients just “let go” of hate, as if it were a heavy load that they could simply drop to the... Read more
When Talk Isn’t Enough
Easing Trauma’s Lingering ShockPioneering trauma expert Bessel van der Kolk shares his thoughts on the differences between public and private trauma. Read more
VIDEO: Single-Session Cures with Anxiety Problems
Are You Asking the Right Questions?When it comes to understanding your clients’ inner world, words can only go so far. Clients can use words to tell you what they’re conscious of (“My... Read more
VIDEO: The Key to Dramatically Accelerating Anxiety Treatment
Being Anxious Doesn’t Mean You’re Anxious to ChangeMost therapists assume that, just as any rational person with a broken arm would be an eager customer for medical care, surely a person suffering from severe... Read more
Outside the Box
Bringing Families into Trauma TreatmentIf we don’t open up the one-on-one therapeutic cloister, trauma sufferers may never learn how to engage in the give and take of real-life relationships. By... Read more
VIDEO: What to Do When Therapy Stalls
Bill Doherty on Handling the Issue of Progress Before it's a CrisisBill talks about a proactive approach that can lead to positive developments when therapy starts to stall. Read more
VIDEO: Letting the Body Lead
Ann Randolph on Truly Embodied EmotionAnn explains how imbuing body parts with feelings can lead clients to more embodied and clarifying emotional experiences than talk alone can provide. Read more
VIDEO: Psychotherapy as Experiential Drama
Jeffrey Zeig on Bridging the Gap between Knowing and RealizingJeff explains the tools he uses to make therapy a true experience—including trance, novelty, and precision in his use of language, and resonant gestures that... Read more
Getting to the Heart of the Stuck Couple’s Story
Peggy Papp on Using Metaphor for New Insight, Fresh Language, and Forward MovementHow can a therapist cut through a couples’ intellectualizations, defensiveness, and ritualized use of language? The key is to bypass the language and explore... Read more
Soft Shock Therapy
The Art of Speaking the UnspeakableUsing humor to help clients reconstruct their problems, even to the point of making parodies of their own dilemmas, can help some them get distance from their... Read more
VIDEO: Where Do You Want to Take Your Clients?
Courtney Armstrong on Approaching Sessions from a New AngleWatch this clip to hear Courtney Armstrong talk about a specific client she saw who needed guidance more than she needed understanding. Read more
Dealing with Dishonesty in Couples Therapy
David Schnarch on Not Taking Lying PersonallyPart of the healing process is seeing and understanding how clients operate in their day-to-day existence, so a client who's being dishonest in their life... Read more
VIDEO: The Inevitability of Challenging Clients
Janina Fisher on Seeing the Cracks in the FoundationIn this clip Janina Fisher talks about how years of experience do not guarantee easy clients and how she reacts when faced with a challenging case. Read more
When Depressed Clients Blame Themselves
Elisha Goldstein on Treating Depression with Self-CompassionTo help depressed clients figure out what they need to heal, mindfulness specialist Elisha Goldstein has developed several effective self-compassion practices... Read more
VIDEO: Using Corrective Experiences in Attachment-Based Therapy
Diane Poole Heller on Bringing the Concrete to the AbstractDiane Poole Heller talks about one of her therapy techniques: Corrective experiences. Read more
The Therapist as Improv Actor?
Ann Randolph on Using Acting to Access EmotionsAnn Randolph talks about one acting technique in particular that can easily be incorporated into therapy sessions to help clients express their emotions. Read more
What Type of Depression is It?
Margaret Wehrenberg on Working with Low-Energy Depressed ClientsMargaret Wehrenberg identified specific types of anxious/depressed clients and has honed different treatment techniques that are effective. Read more
Practicing Meditation Against All Odds
Zindel Segal on the Three-Minute Breathing SpaceZin Segal discusses how clients can achieve mindful awareness of their emotional states in just three minutes. Read more
How To Follow Clients’ Subtle Clues To Deep Healing Places
Diana Fosha Shares an Example from Her Own WorkDiana Fosha uses an example from her own practice of how therapists can begin to catch incongruity Read more