In The Therapy Room

True tales and lessons from the therapist’s chair
Video January 13, 2014

Does Your Depressed Client Even Want to Change?

David Burns on Using Paradoxical Agenda Setting

David Burns talks about how to set an agenda for therapy. Read more

Video January 6, 2014

Learning What a Depressed Client Needs

Elisha Goldstein on Individually Treating Cases of Depression

Elisha Goldstein asks clients what they need in tough moments and explains why it helps them learn to trust themselves. Read more

Video December 23, 2013

Working Through the Childhood Wounds that Feed Depression

Judith Beck on Understanding Emotions Intellectually

Judith Beck talks about an intellectual technique that she uses when doing childhood work with adult clients suffering from depression. Read more

Video December 18, 2013

Letting Emotion Out and In

Susan Johnson on the Value of Using Emotion in Couples Work

Susan shares the latest research that backs up the central principle of EFT Read more

Video December 16, 2013

VIDEO: Desiring Change, but Clinging to the Familiar

David Burns on Turning Resistance into the Voice of Change

David Burns discusses the key to reaching resistant clients—and it's not a new technique. Read more

Video December 11, 2013

Coaching with Feeling

Jeff Auerbach on the Key Differences Between Therapy and Coaching

Jeff Auerbach discusses the differences between therapy and coaching. Read more

Article November 14, 2013

Facing a Fear of Confrontation in Couples Therapy

When Couples Issues Hit Close to Home, Moving Forward Means Putting Aside the Fear of Confrontation
Ellyn Bader and Peter Pearson

We frequently need to confront our clients, and putting aside a fear of confrontation—not to mention a fear of losing clients—means that we must risk the... Read more

Video September 26, 2013

VIDEO: Anxiety as a GPS

Danie Beaulieu On How to Make Panic An Ally

Danie Beaulieu explains how panic can function as the voice of clients’ internal GPS, telling them when they are making a “wrong turn” in their lives. Read more

Article September 5, 2013

A Suicide Note In Crayon

Expecting the Unexpected at PS 48

To work as a school social worker in the Bronx’s high-crime, low-income Hunt’s Point neighborhood is to become an expert at expecting the unexpected. Read more

Video July 29, 2013

James Gordon shares a technique he uses with clients to help them get out of hopeless thought patterns. Read more

Article May 1, 2013

Depathologizing the Borderline Client

Learning to Manage Our Fears

Inevitably, given their history of trauma, many borderline clients will trigger their therapists from time to time. But forgoing the urge to blame these... Read more

Article November 1, 2012

The Art of the First Session

Getting It Right From the Start

You never get a second chance to have a first session, so make the most of it. Read more

Video October 2, 2012

The Power of Secure Attachment

Offering Deep Relatedness from the Very First Session

Diane Poole Heller, an expert in trauma and attachment, on helping clients find their way back to meaningful, safe relationships. Read more

Article November 1, 2011

A Matter Of Choice

Deciding: to be Right or be Married?

Do you want to be right or be married? Okay, now pause, think, breathe . . . and choose between First Consciousness and Second Consciousness. Read more

Article November 1, 2011

In Or Out?

Treating the Mixed-Agenda Couple

At least 30 percent of couples coming to therapy have fundamentally different agendas about whether to try to save the marriage. If we’re ever going to... Read more

Article November 1, 2010

Therapy in the Round

Group Therapy Offers a Larger Arena for Change

How the skills of the group therapist differ from those of the individually-oriented practitioner. Read more

Article November 1, 2010

Stop the Merry-Go-Round

Strategies for Angry Couples
W. Robert Nay & Ronald Potter-Efron

While partners caught in the anger merry-go-round invariably blame the other, both typically pass the anger back and forth like a shared virus. Read more

Article July 1, 2010

The Mindful Swimmer

Staying Afloat in the Rough Seas of Relationship
Karen Kissell Wegela

Mindfulness offers tools for navigating the stormy seas of a troubled relationship. Read more

Article May 6, 2010

Between Gay and Straight

Honoring a Client's Multiple Identities
Jeff Levy & Jean Malpas

A middle-aged man facing the challenge of coming out explores the uncharted territory of a "mixed-orientation marriage" Read more

Article May 1, 2010

Game On!

Bringing the locker room into the consulting room

Although therapy is often considered a profession dominated by the female sensibility, a lifelong gym rat, much practiced in the arts of masculine aggression... Read more

Article May 1, 2010

Holding Your Ground with Narcissistic Clients

What to do when your hot buttons get pushed

Some practical guidelines for handling confrontive and critical clients. Read more

Article March 1, 2010

Take a Breath

Using Yoga to Create a Sense of Well-Being in Your Office

A variety of easy-to-use yogic breathing techniques can add a new dimension to treatment with depressed and anxious clients. Read more

Article March 1, 2010

Addicted to Sex

There are no shortcuts in treating SA
Alexandra Katehakis

Effective work with sex addicts must address deep-seated attachment wounds. Commentary by Joe Kort. Read more

Article January 1, 2010

Old Habits Die Hard

Making couples therapy stick

It's one thing to make change happen in a couples session; it's quick another to make those changes tick over time. Read more

Article January 1, 2010

Educating Theresa

Sometimes therapy means total commitment

Treating depression requires a commitment to working with mind, body, and spirit. Read more

Article November 1, 2009

Heart of the Matter

Helping Couples Find Their Sexual Chemistry

Whether they know it or not, what most people are looking for in sex therapy isn't so much a change in specific behaviors as a way of developing a more... Read more

Article September 25, 2009

EMDR helps a young Iraq War vet and his wife emerge from the nightmare of his war experience. Read more

Article March 1, 2009

Working with Alcoholics

AA as a Crucial Adjunct to Therapy
Mark Schenker

Therapists need to get beyond the common misconception about Alcoholics Anonymous. Read more

Article January 1, 2009

The Tao of Improv

Embracing Life on the Edge

Improvisational theater offers a unique way of approaching relationships—and psychotherapy—that's generous rather than closed, support rather than... Read more

Article October 18, 2008

Receiving with Grace

Teaching Reluctant Seniors to Accept Help

"Many of my older clients and their family caregivers resist accepting help from others. How can I get them to receive the care they need?" Read more

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