Aging

Larger than Life

Marianne Walters Was Family Therapy's Foremost Feminist

Marianne Walters didn't invent a brilliant new therapeutic paradigm, publish a large and magisterial body of research, or establish her own unique school of... Read more

A Little Wiggle Room

It's Never too Late to Change Your Story

It’s never too late to change your story Read more

Rocking On!

From grief to rebirth

A daughter marvels as her mother goes from grief to an exuberant rebirth. Read more

The Rise of the Two-Dimensional Parent

Are Therapists Seeing a New Kind of Attachment?

As we move slowly beyond the great recession, today’s young people are the first American generation in a long while expected to be less well off than their... Read more

The Whole World Is Watching

Therapy and the TED Talk Stage

Earlier this year, therapist Michele Weiner-Davis spent hours in front of a camera, her husband patiently hitting the record button as she rehearsed for what... Read more

VIDEO: Winning the Anxiety Game

How to Change the Rules

There’s a reason agoraphobic people stay home and acrophobic people stay grounded. No one enjoys the way that panic feels. But the trouble with trying to... Read more

VIDEO: How to Become a Lifelong Learner

The Principles of Neuroplasticity

According to Michael Gelb, a world-renowned speaker on innovative approaches to enhanced learning and author of How to Think like Leonardo da Vinci: Seven... Read more

The Brain Science of Self-Deception

Understanding the Limits of Self-Awareness

It’s commonly suggested that depression results from seeing reality too clearly. Repression, denial, and humor grease the social wheels and lead us to put a... Read more

Managing Transference and Countertransference in Somatic Therapy

Does Body-Oriented Therapy Increase the Risk of Transference and Countertransference Responses?

Therapeutic skeptics still cite the possibility of stirring up intense transference and countertransference responses as a compelling reason not to use more... Read more

Reading the Lake

After 30 Years, a Sanctuary is Threatened

Our heads may tell us that we need to embrace inevitable changes as we grow older, but our hearts often tell a different story. Read more

The Mindful Body: Communicating With the Body in Therapy

How a Transition to Mindful Body-Focused Therapy Enriched a Formerly Talk-Only Practice

It’s an article of faith among many somatically-oriented practitioners that the body knows more, knows it more directly, and expresses it more honestly than... Read more

More More Time

Discovering the Endless Present

A new retiree discovers the elusive secret of the endless present. Read more

You’re Never Too Old to Change

Michael Gelb On The Most Effective Methods Of Change

Michael Gelb discusses time-tested wisdom that helps people change their lives. Read more

After the Anger

Learning to Love an Imperfect Parent

A man entering his sixties discovers some peculiar markers that signal a retreat from old oppositional habits. Read more

There’s something about healing from the deep emotional suffering that feels like death and rebirth—not the quick kind that some claim to receive in... Read more

Recovering Together

An Ailing Mother Comes to the Aid of Her Son

An ailing mother and son help each other find their way back to health. Read more

Unhappy Endings

Death as Technology’s Slave

A perverse set of financial incentives within the medical system too often leads to the promotion of maximum treatment, no matter what. When this happens... Read more

Doing What's Best for Mom and Dad

Helping Contentious Siblings Find Common Cause

A parent's failing health can stir up a hornet's nest of trouble among adult siblings. Read more

Going, Going, Gone

A young boy finds his Charon for the final journey
Anna Belle Kaufman

An ill child finds his place among a group of other boys in aging men's bodies. Read more

Hello, Good-bye

Boomers Are Discovering The Joys and Sorrows of Grandparenthood
Barbara Graham

As the boomers discover the joys and sorrows of becoming grandparents, they're putting their own generational stamp on a role that's as ancient as parenthood. Read more

Eros and Aging

Is good enough sex right for you?
Michael Metz, Barry McCarthy, & Gina Ogden

Despite marketing blitz, Viagra hasn't turned out to be the neat remedy for erectile dysfunction for men over 50 that was promised. Can therapists offer aging... Read more

Refeathering the Nest

From Dutiful Daughter to Self-Aware Caregiver

When families become stressed by a member's long-term care needs, it's easy to continue the usual relationship patterns and perpetuate long-standing... Read more

Those who care for ailing family members often are undertaking a marathon, not a sprint. Read more

Positive Aging

A New Paradigm for Growing Old

How to continue to get the most out of life as you age. Read more

When You're 64

You May Be Ready to Retire, But What About Mom and Dad?

With the life expectancy of the elderly rising, today's Boomers, much maligned for their presumed selfishness, are facing a far more daunting challenge in... Read more

Across the Great Divide

Middle Age in the Rear-View Mirror

As they've aged, the Boomers have kept redefining previous generations' ideas about the stages of the life cycle. But while the pop bromide may insist that "50... Read more

In Praise of the Older Therapist

Probing the Heart of Clinical Wisdom

Among the more curious findings of the therapy-research literature is the failure to show that experienced clinicians get any better results than novices... Read more

The Shadow of Evil

How Do You Speak about the Unspeakable?
Moshe Lang

In the "talking cure" of therapy, silence is usually associated with resistance, denial and shame. But silence may also be a recognition that ordinary language... Read more

From the September/October 1994 IN THE PHOTOGRAPH OF MY maternal grandfather, Louie, that I remember most clearly, he is around 50, his bald head and... Read more