Aging
Larger than Life
Marianne Walters Was Family Therapy's Foremost FeministMarianne Walters didn't invent a brilliant new therapeutic paradigm, publish a large and magisterial body of research, or establish her own unique school of... Read more
A Little Wiggle Room
It's Never too Late to Change Your StoryIt’s never too late to change your story Read more
Rocking On!
From grief to rebirthA daughter marvels as her mother goes from grief to an exuberant rebirth. Read more
The Rise of the Two-Dimensional Parent
Are Therapists Seeing a New Kind of Attachment?As we move slowly beyond the great recession, today’s young people are the first American generation in a long while expected to be less well off than their... Read more
The Whole World Is Watching
Therapy and the TED Talk StageEarlier this year, therapist Michele Weiner-Davis spent hours in front of a camera, her husband patiently hitting the record button as she rehearsed for what... Read more
VIDEO: Winning the Anxiety Game
How to Change the RulesThere’s a reason agoraphobic people stay home and acrophobic people stay grounded. No one enjoys the way that panic feels. But the trouble with trying to... Read more
VIDEO: How to Become a Lifelong Learner
The Principles of NeuroplasticityAccording to Michael Gelb, a world-renowned speaker on innovative approaches to enhanced learning and author of How to Think like Leonardo da Vinci: Seven... Read more
The Brain Science of Self-Deception
Understanding the Limits of Self-AwarenessIt’s commonly suggested that depression results from seeing reality too clearly. Repression, denial, and humor grease the social wheels and lead us to put a... Read more
Managing Transference and Countertransference in Somatic Therapy
Does Body-Oriented Therapy Increase the Risk of Transference and Countertransference Responses?Therapeutic skeptics still cite the possibility of stirring up intense transference and countertransference responses as a compelling reason not to use more... Read more
Reading the Lake
After 30 Years, a Sanctuary is ThreatenedOur heads may tell us that we need to embrace inevitable changes as we grow older, but our hearts often tell a different story. Read more
The Mindful Body: Communicating With the Body in Therapy
How a Transition to Mindful Body-Focused Therapy Enriched a Formerly Talk-Only PracticeIt’s an article of faith among many somatically-oriented practitioners that the body knows more, knows it more directly, and expresses it more honestly than... Read more
More More Time
Discovering the Endless PresentA new retiree discovers the elusive secret of the endless present. Read more
You’re Never Too Old to Change
Michael Gelb On The Most Effective Methods Of ChangeMichael Gelb discusses time-tested wisdom that helps people change their lives. Read more
After the Anger
Learning to Love an Imperfect ParentA man entering his sixties discovers some peculiar markers that signal a retreat from old oppositional habits. Read more
Suffering and the Quest for Wisdom
A Dark PassageThere’s something about healing from the deep emotional suffering that feels like death and rebirth—not the quick kind that some claim to receive in... Read more
Recovering Together
An Ailing Mother Comes to the Aid of Her SonAn ailing mother and son help each other find their way back to health. Read more
Unhappy Endings
Death as Technology’s SlaveA perverse set of financial incentives within the medical system too often leads to the promotion of maximum treatment, no matter what. When this happens... Read more
Doing What's Best for Mom and Dad
Helping Contentious Siblings Find Common CauseA parent's failing health can stir up a hornet's nest of trouble among adult siblings. Read more
Going, Going, Gone
A young boy finds his Charon for the final journeyAn ill child finds his place among a group of other boys in aging men's bodies. Read more
Hello, Good-bye
Boomers Are Discovering The Joys and Sorrows of GrandparenthoodAs the boomers discover the joys and sorrows of becoming grandparents, they're putting their own generational stamp on a role that's as ancient as parenthood. Read more
Eros and Aging
Is good enough sex right for you?Despite marketing blitz, Viagra hasn't turned out to be the neat remedy for erectile dysfunction for men over 50 that was promised. Can therapists offer aging... Read more
Refeathering the Nest
From Dutiful Daughter to Self-Aware CaregiverWhen families become stressed by a member's long-term care needs, it's easy to continue the usual relationship patterns and perpetuate long-standing... Read more
Caring for the Caregiver
6 TipsThose who care for ailing family members often are undertaking a marathon, not a sprint. Read more
Positive Aging
A New Paradigm for Growing OldHow to continue to get the most out of life as you age. Read more
When You're 64
You May Be Ready to Retire, But What About Mom and Dad?With the life expectancy of the elderly rising, today's Boomers, much maligned for their presumed selfishness, are facing a far more daunting challenge in... Read more
Across the Great Divide
Middle Age in the Rear-View MirrorAs they've aged, the Boomers have kept redefining previous generations' ideas about the stages of the life cycle. But while the pop bromide may insist that "50... Read more
In Praise of the Older Therapist
Probing the Heart of Clinical WisdomAmong the more curious findings of the therapy-research literature is the failure to show that experienced clinicians get any better results than novices... Read more
The Shadow of Evil
How Do You Speak about the Unspeakable?In the "talking cure" of therapy, silence is usually associated with resistance, denial and shame. But silence may also be a recognition that ordinary language... Read more
From the September/October 1994 IN THE PHOTOGRAPH OF MY maternal grandfather, Louie, that I remember most clearly, he is around 50, his bald head and... Read more