Boundaries

My Client Invited Me to a Family Barbecue

Five Clinicians Give Their Take
Psychotherapy Networker

A therapist recently moved to a new town and discovered that his client's daughter attends the same school as his son. The client recently... Read more

My Client Uses Me in Inappropriate Hypothetical Examples

Six Clinicians Give Their Take on This Tricky Clinical Scenario
Psychotherapy Networker

A male client uses his therapist in hypothetical examples, which the therapist finds inappropriate. Recently, when they were discussing healthy dating habits... Read more

VIDEO: The Hearing

A Therapist Shares Her Most Transformative Session

In our own small way, the Networker has tried to revive the ancient, tribal practice of storytelling. At our third annual Symposium storytelling event, Kirsten... Read more

When Money Comes Up in Therapy

Two Ways to Make Your Fee Policies Clear and Easy to Talk About

Most therapists were never coached about how to reconcile the closeness of the therapeutic encounter with the fact that therapy is also a business. Read more

The Therapeutic Relationship, Revisited

A Man Discovers a Safe Guide, and a Real Person, in His New Therapist
Stephen Lyons

By Stephen Lyons - My work with Sara began in an uninspiring, windowless, downtown suite that she shared with another therapist. But before long, my therapy... Read more

VIDEO: Bill Doherty on the Rewards of Civic Commitment

Creating Space for a Conversation About Civic Commitments

Sometimes our clients have commitments to groups or causes that enrich their lives and social connections. But very often, says couples therapist Bill... Read more

VIDEO: When One Partner Wants Out

Discernment Counseling for the Mixed-Agenda Couple

In at least 30 percent of couples who come to therapy, partners enter the consulting room with different agendas---one wants a divorce, the other wants to save... Read more

Larger than Life

Marianne Walters Was Family Therapy's Foremost Feminist

Marianne Walters didn't invent a brilliant new therapeutic paradigm, publish a large and magisterial body of research, or establish her own unique school of... Read more

From Good Person to Ethical Professional

Mitch Handelsman on the Effectiveness of Ethics Acculturation

Mitch Handelsman explains integrating psychotherapy and ethics acculturation. Read more

How to Protect Yourself in the Ethical Gray Zone

Frederic Reamer on the Importance of Documentation

Frederic Reamer explains the importance of documentation and how it can save you from potential legal woes, even when you’re sure you’re in the right. Read more

Challenging The Narcissist

How to Find Pathways to Empathy

Given their arrogance, condescension, and lack of empathy, narcissists are notoriously difficult clients. The key to working with them is being direct and... Read more

Editor's Note: July/August 2012

Ethics and Boundaries

The hallmark of the therapeutic encounter is that the therapist is an expert, trained in a particular skill-set to conduct a rather odd, rarified conversation... Read more