Clinical Skills & Experience
The Unbearable Heaviness of Being
Learning to Celebrate a New ShapeRefusing to be defined by others can sometimes require an unexpected catalyst. Read more
Trauma and Teletherapy
Discerning Our Clients’ NeedsFor some clients, the transition to online therapy has worked perfectly well—or well enough. But for clients who suffer from severe trauma and deep... Read more
The Surprising Intimacy of Phone Sessions
Turning off the Camera, Turning on the ConnectionSome clients and therapists strongly prefer the old-fashioned phone to video sessions. What’s so transformative about turning off the camera? Read more
Going Virtual with Couples
From Skeptic to BelieverOnline couples therapy can be tough, especially with a high-stakes case. The developer of Emotionally Focused Therapy dives into the deep end with a couple... Read more
CoronaGifts
How Teletherapy Changed My Life and My PracticeThe pandemic has showed us just how much our clients need us—and how much we need to tend to ourselves. For some therapists, this has meant reimagining their... Read more
Therapy From the Podcast Studio
Lori Gottlieb and Guy Winch discuss “Dear Therapists”The therapists and writers have teamed up to produce a podcast that addresses a listener’s problem, provides specific advice, and then checks in to see... Read more
Is Trauma Therapy Doing Enough for People of Color?
What is a therapist to do?When it comes to addressing systemic racism and injustice, “therapy’s not enough,” says trauma expert Mary Jo Barrett. But that doesn’t mean therapists... Read more
When Teens Self-Harm: How to Effectively Involve Parents
Two Experts Weigh InWhen working with a young client who's struggling with self-harm, how should clinicians navigate the practical, emotional, and ethical difficulties surrounding... Read more
My Client is Spinning Her Wheels
Five Clinicians Weigh InWeek after week, a client’s sessions focus on her issues with her partner. Her therapist thinks couples therapy would be tremendously helpful, but the... Read more
30 Is Not the New 20
Helping Clients Value Their Defining DecadeWhy our 20s are a developmental sweet spot, and what therapists should know about helping clients make the most of them. Read more
Five Things Seasoned Therapists Wish They'd Known
. . . And the One Question You Should Always Ask Your ClientsA great deal of what therapist's learn comes from experience, trial and error, and hours upon hours sitting across from clients. Five seasoned therapists share... Read more
The Addict in All of Us
Gabor Maté's Unflinching VisionCanadian physician Gabor Maté believes that addictive behaviors are woven into the very fabric of our materialistic society. Read more
Managing Confidentiality
Three Things I Learned from My Small-Town PracticeWhen you practice in a rural town, sometimes it can feel like everyone is connected to each other. Instead of worrying about boundary and confidentiality... Read more
We still don’t have a clear and reliable road map for navigating the unique grief that comes with losing a wanted pregnancy. Read more
Lori Gottlieb on Fertility Counseling
Finding Strength and ResilienceThe bestselling author of Maybe You Should Talk to Someone shares her experience using a sperm donor to have a child, and how she helps clients with... Read more
Finding the Balance
How to Meet Stress with Tenderness during COVID-19During the pandemic, our clients’ relationships need special attention and nurturing. Sometimes that means helping them recalibrate what they can hold for... Read more
Meeting the Moment
The Importance of Risk in TherapyThe therapist’s office is a zone of creative adventure and unpredictability, where the most powerful moments often come out of the blue. Read more
Nurturing Resilience Now
Even On ScreensGiven the confluence of challenges we’re collectively facing these days, developing resilience has become more crucial than ever. We now need to ask, how can... Read more
Regardless of training, the most important thing a therapist can have is the strong belief that clients can get better, despite life circumstances. Read more
My Client Says Teletherapy Isn’t Helping
Five Therapists Weigh InA therapist is offering teletherapy during the coronavirus pandemic, and it's working well for most of her clients. But her anxious client Sam has repeatedly... Read more
Couples Therapy During Coronavirus
Challenges and OpportunitiesA clinician who's spent almost two years doing online couples therapy shares the tips and strategies she's found especially helpful. Read more
The Mentor Who Changed My Therapy Practice, Part 2
Wisdom, Revelations, and Journey-MakingNo person is an island. And surely enough, no therapist hones their craft without a lot of learning and inspiration from others. Three clinicians share the... Read more
How I Start My First Session
Icebreakers, Alliance-Building, and MoreFirst introductions with clients can be make-or-break moments that influence therapy sessions to come. In a first meeting, how do you break through a... Read more
My Client Gets Distracted During Teletherapy
Five Clinicians Weigh InMarcia's therapist has switched to doing teletherapy. But as a single mother of two adolescent girls all quarantining in a small apartment, sessions have... Read more
United in Uncertainty
A Technophobic Therapist and Covid-19A technophobic therapist struggles with a new professional reality. Read more
Tales from the Therapy Room
Our Annual Storytelling Feature!Five therapists recall the up-against-the-wall moments from practice that required them to toss away the usual clinical playbook. Read more
Letters from Home
From Storytelling 2020Finding hope in a hopeless situation. Read more
Broken Mirrors
From Storytelling 2020When we can acknowledge the dark forces that reside within us. Read more
How to Find the “Can” in “Can’t”
Getting Creative with CBTIt takes creativity to apply basic therapy tools, especially when depression has set in and negative cognitions have taken over. Read more
Listening to Suicidal Clients
How to Get Beyond our FearsA suicidologist opens up about her personal struggles and what actually helps when working with suicidal clients. Read more