Clinical Skills & Experience

Phone Sex and the Rabbi

Discovering the Normal in the Deviant

A therapist works with a rabbi struggling with his mental health and developing false relationships with phone sex operators. Read more

Converting Calls into Clients

How to make the most of first contact
Barry Silverman

How to move from the first phone call to booking an appointment Read more

Undercurrents

When Therapy Stalls
Scott Sells and Carol Anderson

When therapy stalls, it's usually time to investigate the undercurrents that nobody wants to talk about. Read more

The Larger Self

Discovering the Core Within Our Multiplicity

The practice of therapy, for both therapist and client, is transformed when we connect with our fundamental core, a process that involves learning to listen... Read more

Addictions Treatment: Myth vs Reality

Effective Interventions Often Don't Match Stereotypes

Two recent landmark overviews of research separate myth from reality in the treatment of substance abuse. Read more

Encountering the Shadow

Face to Face with the Seduction of Violence
Michelle Cacho-Negrete

When your day-to-day life keeps immersing you in the most burtal side of the human experience, you must learn what it means to resist. Read more

Breaking the Spell

A Good Boy Learns to Become a Man
Stephen Lyons

A man who grew up rescuing the women around him learns that there's no saving someone from sorrow. Sometimes the best we can do—all we can do—is offer a... Read more

Acts of Compulsion

Unmasking the Allure of the Illicit
David Guy

If therapy is in some sense a confrontation in which you must come face-to-face with your disowned self, it's a real advantage to choose a therapist who's your... Read more

The Beethoven Factor

The People Who Thrive in the Face of Extreme Adversity May Surprise You

Thrivers are not Pollyannas. They are not blindly optimistic and are far from showing the often irritating feigned cheerfulness that can result from trying to... Read more

4 Types of Reconciliation

Coming Together after Falling Apart

Everyone's reconciliation story is different, but everyone can reconcile in one of four ways. Read more

Bad Couples Therapy

Getting Past the Myth of Therapist Neutrality

Here are the mistakes both beginning and experienced couples therapists commit, and how you can avoid them. Read more

The Awful Truth

Most Men Are Just Not Raised to be Intimate

After the publication of my book, 'I Don't Want to Talk about It,' I started getting calls from people around the United States who wanted help. Naming the... Read more

The Slippery Slope

Violating the Ultimate Therapeutic Taboo

"I doubt that I would fit many people's image of a therapist who would violate sexual boundaries with a client. Before it happened, I certainly did not fit my... Read more

What Textbooks Don't Tell You

Acknowledging the complexities of real-life therapy

Acknowledging the complexities of real-life therapy Read more

The Dog Ate It

When clients don't do their homework

How to get clients to do their homework assignments Read more

Manners Matter

Respecting the etiquette of effective psychotherapy
Daniel L. Buccino

From the July/August 1997 issue Whenever I talk about my belief in the link between etiquette and successful psychotherapy, people exclaim “Manners?! You... Read more

Hot Chat

Virtual affairs can become very real emotionally
Linda S. Freedman

From the May/June 1997 issue The Internet has entered the consulting room in ways that few therapists could possibly have anticipated. Today, Internet... Read more

Families facing a disabling illness often take refuge in a collective folie. Read more

The Shadow of Evil

How Do You Speak about the Unspeakable?
Moshe Lang

In the "talking cure" of therapy, silence is usually associated with resistance, denial and shame. But silence may also be a recognition that ordinary language... Read more

Emerging from the Shadows

Looking Beyond the Borderline Diagnosis

In the minds of many therapists, the borderline diagnosis has come to be a code word for trouble. To get past our sense of helplessness with these clients, we... Read more

Wild Boy

Helping Touretters Manage the Unique Chaos of Their Lives
George Lynn

In the Middle Ages, Gregory Lynn would have been considered possessed by demons. Today, he's diagnosed with a profound neurochemical imbalance called... Read more

The Age of Interruption

On Hold in a Call-Waiting World

As today's hyperkinetic families struggle to create the semblance of a shared life out of the frantic and conflicting schedules of their members, the... Read more

Gillian Walker and Susan Shimmerlik

Millions of learning-disabled adults rely on intellectual guerrilla tactics to survive. Read more

From the Networker archives, a therapist discusses homophobia within clinical practice. Read more