Divorce
Larger than Life
Marianne Walters Was Family Therapy's Foremost FeministMarianne Walters didn't invent a brilliant new therapeutic paradigm, publish a large and magisterial body of research, or establish her own unique school of... Read more
Stronger Medicine
Anti-Depressants Haven't Made Therapy ObsoleteAmericans have a history of valuing quick-fix solutions to difficult problems. But the simplistic psychopharmacological approach to depressive disorders... Read more
Reinventing Couplehood
Intimacy and Commitment in the Age of Consumer MarriageEsther Perel, a couples therapist whose TED talk has had more than 5 million views, believes that it’s time to challenge the mismatch between the romantic... Read more
It Takes One to Tango
You Don't Need Both Partners to Do Couples TherapyMany therapists define the type of therapy they practice by taking a head count: if one person is present, they're practicing individual therapy; if two or... Read more
Cultivating Erotic Intelligence in Couples Therapy
Reconciling Sensuality and DomesticityAmerica, in matters of sex as in much else, seems to be a goal-oriented society that prefers explicit meanings, candor, and "plain speech" to ambiguity and... Read more
VIDEO: Examining DSM-5's Most Controversial Change
Gary Greenberg on the Bereavement Exclusion“When DSM-III came out and the major depression diagnosis was created,” Gary tells us in this brief video clip, “it was immediately clear that many... Read more
Taking Off The Gloves
David Schnarch On How Confrontation Speeds Up Couples TherapyCouples therapist David Schnarch shares how speed helps give relationships hope. Read more
In Or Out?
Treating the Mixed-Agenda CoupleAt least 30 percent of couples coming to therapy have fundamentally different agendas about whether to try to save the marriage. If we’re ever going to... Read more
Neil Clark Warren, the founder of the successful matchmaking site eHarmony, talks about what’s necessary to find a good, compatible match. Read more
Between Gay and Straight
Honoring a Client's Multiple IdentitiesA middle-aged man facing the challenge of coming out explores the uncharted territory of a "mixed-orientation marriage" Read more
Learning Forgiveness
Peacemaking Skills For CouplesGiven that most couples never manage to change each other very much, teaching them to forgive each other's imperfections is a vastly underutilized therapeutic... Read more
Divorcing Well
Bringing Buddhist Practice to Divorce CounselingWhile the death of a marriage is undoubtedly painful, it doesn't have to be pathological. Buddhism can offer the concrete guidance to help even the most... Read more
Getting Uncoupled
Anger Can Blind a Marriage Long After DivorceJust because a couple is legally divorced doesn't mean that they're not emotionally still married. Read more
Bad Couples Therapy
Betting Past the Myth of Therapist NeutralityA dirty little secret in the therapy field is that couples therapy may be the hardest form of therapy, and most therapists aren't good at it. Of course, this... Read more
Every day, warring and desperate husbands and wives show up in our offices agonizing over divorce. Have we been too blithe in encouraging them to go ahead, too... Read more
Some intriguing findings refute popular myths about marriage. Read more
Some African-American couples wrestle with stereotypes to the bitter end. Read more
Two squabbling ex-spouses learn to be steadfast coparents. Read more