Family
The Unassignables
What Really Gets Handed Down in a Family?A son’s decision to get married is a rite of passage for the entire family. Read more
OCD and Children
It’s a Family AffairOCD in children can operate like a kind of cult leader, demanding acceptance of an extreme view of a perilous reality and offering solutions that can’t be... Read more
Kendall’s Prom
A Special Daughter’s Special NightAn young woman with autism celebrates a very special night. Read more
VIDEO: Making the Case for the Emotional Man
Pat Love Explains Why We Need to Rethink the "Empathy Gap"Have you ever wondered if some men in your practice are simply unable to listen, connect, and empathize with their partners? According to Pat Love, it’s more... Read more
Rewriting the 'Difficult Mother' Story
A Son Embraces a New NarrativeSorting through his mother’s personal files in the wake of her dementia, a son discovers more than he expected. Read more
Addressing Race Therapeutically in Black Relationships
Testimonials from the 2015 Psychotherapy Networker SymposiumToday I attended a workshop called “Working with Black Couples: Overcoming Myths and Stereotypes,” led by Dr. Christiana Awosan. Being an African American... Read more
Mindfulness, Conscious Breathing Exercises, and Cyber Intimacy
Testimonials from the 2015 Psychotherapy Networker SymposiumAlthough I have read his books and seen many videos of him in action, today's Networker Symposium workshop was the first in-person opportunity I've had to hear... Read more
Larger than Life
Marianne Walters Was Family Therapy's Foremost FeministMarianne Walters didn't invent a brilliant new therapeutic paradigm, publish a large and magisterial body of research, or establish her own unique school of... Read more
Stronger Medicine
Anti-Depressants Haven't Made Therapy ObsoleteAmericans have a history of valuing quick-fix solutions to difficult problems. But the simplistic psychopharmacological approach to depressive disorders... Read more
Letting Go of Our Facade
To Tell the TruthTherapists aren't supposed to discuss personal problems, or even acknowledge having any. While preaching congruence, who among us has never pretended fondness... Read more
A Little Wiggle Room
It's Never too Late to Change Your StoryIt’s never too late to change your story Read more
Get Out of My Life!
Working with Cut-off Family Members in the Consulting RoomHelping families heal cutoffs is painstakingly delicate work, with a high risk for stumbling over buried land mines. Read more
Rocking On!
From grief to rebirthA daughter marvels as her mother goes from grief to an exuberant rebirth. Read more
Passionate Marriage
Helping Couples Decode the Language of Their SexualityHow couples behave in bed is a remarkablv authentic expression of their emotional connection-or lack of it. Read more
Questions of Gender
A therapist struggles with the clinical choices he’s madeA therapist takes an unflinching look at a puzzling case that spanned 14 years, wondering if he made a wrong turn. Read more
VIDEO: Bringing the Family Into Trauma Treatment
Mary Jo Barrett on Family ConsultationsIn this brief video clip, Mary Jo explains why bringing the family into therapy should be our first stop when treating trauma. Read more
VIDEO: Somatic Tools for Self-Soothing
Peter Levine Describes How Somatic Experiencing Helps Clients Self-RegulateIn this brief video clip, Peter demonstrates a body awareness technique that includes loud, vibrating deep breaths to help clients minimize anxiety and... Read more
VIDEO: Helping Traumatized Clients Understand their Automatic Responses
Richard Schwartz Explains Why Panicked Trauma Responses are Also Defensive OnesIn this brief video clip, Richard explains how trauma survivors can have a dialogue with the damaged inner parts—the “Exiles”—by first consulting their... Read more
VIDEO: Stop Shooting the Messenger
The Case for Hearing Anxiety OutAs far as universal human experiences go, anxiety is usually seen as a heinous beast. Clients hate it and therapists offer ways to get rid of it—but not many... Read more
VIDEO: Getting Anxious Families to Loosen Up
A Homework Assignment for Anxious KidsAnxiety is a demanding beast, with a long list of conditions that must be met to keep it at bay. It forces anxious children and their families to banish... Read more
VIDEO: Stopping the Anxiety-Go-Round
Lynn Lyons On Helping Anxious KidsFifteen-year-old Grace doesn’t know it yet, but her troubling anxiety symptoms are run of the mill. Like most anxious kids, it’s not the content of her... Read more
VIDEO: Working With The Borderline Client
Dick Schwartz Demonstrates How to Minimize ReactivityWhen a deeply troubled client begins a first session by shifting erratically through different mood states and periodically going numb, many therapists... Read more
Louder than Words
The Unspoken Code of Fathers and SonsA Bruce Springsteen song helps crack the unspoken code of father–son communication. Read more
VIDEO: Social Conditioning, Or Are We Just Born That Way?
The Neuroscience Behind Primary Gender TraitsLouann Brizendine talks about one of the key neurobiological distinctions between the sexes: the need to reproduce vs. the need to nurture the helpless. Read more
Becoming a Part of the Child Client’s Story
Dan Hughes on the Effectiveness of Psychological Hand-HoldingDaniel Hughes has many techniques to suggest when working with troubled children who have put up a wall. Read more
What the Cactus Knew
The Reward of Not Getting What You WantA much-anticipated vacation demonstrates the rewards of not getting what you want. Read more
Testing the Bond
What's family without shared identity?In an encyclopedic new book, Andrew Solomon explores how parents and children forge emotional bonds with one another in the presence of sometimes vast inborn... Read more
Dilemmas of the “Haveitall” Mom
A Young Mother Struggles with a New IdentityA young woman confronts the myths and dilemmas of motherhood. Read more
Recovering Together
An Ailing Mother Comes to the Aid of Her SonAn ailing mother and son help each other find their way back to health. Read more
A Bond Like None Other
Sometimes proximity isn’t the same as closenessExploring the complex fabric of an often poorly understood family bond that shapes us, in one way or another, throughout our lives. Read more