Family
From Estrangement to Engagement
Helping Fathers and Daughters ConnectHelping Fathers and Daughters Connect Read more
The White Tuxedo
Saturday Night Fever Comes to the Bar MitzvahSaturday Night Fever comes to the bar mitzvah. Read more
Unhappy Endings
Death as Technology’s SlaveA perverse set of financial incentives within the medical system too often leads to the promotion of maximum treatment, no matter what. When this happens... Read more
From Conflict to Alliance
A road map for family interventionsThere's no substitute for a clear clinical model that can guide you through the therapeutic change process. Read more
Lost, and Found
Rediscovering a Subterranean Kingdom of MemoriesReconnecting with old memories in a father's special place. Read more
The Verdict Is In
The Case for Attachment TheoryFifty years of research has confirmed that the emotional quality of our earliest attachment relationships is central to our well-being as adults. Read more
Listening to Your Heart
Sometimes Life's Greatest Gifts are Disguised as DisappointmentsA mother deals with the news that her child will have a lifelong impairment. Read more
Doing What's Best for Mom and Dad
Helping Contentious Siblings Find Common CauseA parent's failing health can stir up a hornet's nest of trouble among adult siblings. Read more
Failure to Launch
The Struggle to Leave Home in the 21st CenturyThe difficulty young people have leaving home is producing confusion amongst parents and their children. Read more
Therapy in the Danger Zone
Breaking the Cycle of Family TraumaThere's no more emotionally demanding work than that with an incestuous family. A therapist offers an uncensored look at the fear, loathing, and fascination of... Read more
Tough Love
They Don't Make Fathers Like They Used ToFond memories of an old-fashioned father who believed in practicing tough love with his fists. Read more
Bungee Families
You Can Go Home AgainWhile some warn that the conveyor belt that once transported adolescents into adulthood has broken down, other insist the increasing number of adult children... Read more
Ultimate Questions
A Therapist Confronts Her Own Magical ThinkingA client's unexpected announcement makes a therapist confront her illusions of invulnerability. Read more
Throughout our lives, our pets are our most unassuming teachers. Read more
Using one's own anger may be the key to success with difficult teen clients. Commentary by Janet Sasson Edgette Read more
A father and son reflect on a life path that isn't about money Read more
Time Traveler
An Empty Nest Can Portend a Freer LifeLife in the empty nest can be humbling, exhilarating, and occasionally, just plain weird. Read more
The Teenager Who Was a Liar
Helping a family redefine its storyFacing the challenge of working with a dissembling adolescent in a blended family means changing the "official story" of the problem. Read more
No Gurus Need Apply
A Disciplined Protocol for Troubled TeensA professor skeptical of the clinical value of family therapy may be doing more to extend the legacy of systems therapy than anyone working with adolescents... Read more
When Three Threatens Two
Must Parenthood Bring Down the Curtain on Romance?Esther Perel explains why new parents need to prioritize their sex lives instead of leaving at the bottom of the to-do list. Read more
Beyond Acceptance
It's Never Too Late to Open Your HeartA woman who wants to learn a new way to be with her mother teaches her therapist what it means to step out of his own comfort zone. Read more
More than Love
The Parents of Adolescents Go Through Their Own Tumultuous PassageFor parents who are chronically pressed for time and feel increasingly impotent in the face of the perils that litter their teen's lives, backing off from... Read more
Families facing a disabling illness often take refuge in a collective folie. Read more
Stop making sense and allow yourself the luxury of tears. Read more
The Gift of Friendship
Bringing an Invaluable Resource into the Therapy RoomWe're pairing up later, splitting up faster, remarrying less often and increasingly deciding to avoid the whole quagmire by staying permanently single. In... Read more
The Age of Interruption
On Hold in a Call-Waiting WorldAs today's hyperkinetic families struggle to create the semblance of a shared life out of the frantic and conflicting schedules of their members, the... Read more
Miniature Roses
A therapist finally makes the long journey home"Mom, I think it's time to really forgive you, and maybe even me. But I'm still mad. I just don't know how to let go of it. Believe it or not, I've been trying... Read more
From the September/October 1994 IN THE PHOTOGRAPH OF MY maternal grandfather, Louie, that I remember most clearly, he is around 50, his bald head and... Read more