Parenting
The Therapeutic Relationship, Revisited
A Man Discovers a Safe Guide, and a Real Person, in His New TherapistBy Stephen Lyons - My work with Sara began in an uninspiring, windowless, downtown suite that she shared with another therapist. But before long, my therapy... Read more
Playing with Anxiety
Helping Young Children Face Scary SituationsHow to use the therapeutic play zone to help young children face difficult situations. Read more
Turns in the Road
Highlights from the Networker JourneyOut of all the hundreds and hundreds of articles that have appeared in the Networker over the past four decades, we’ve chosen a small sampling that captures... Read more
When the Rules Change
Learning to Learn from Your ChildrenThere’s a crucial point in the parenting life cycle that’s not often discussed in the literature. Read more
When Your Child Tells You They Are Trans: A Parent's Journey
What role should therapists play?As a therapist, how do you work with conservative parents struggling to parent their trans child? Psychotherapist Jean Malpas shares three keys to acceptance. Read more
It Takes A Tribe
What It's Like to Raise (or Be) a Transgender ChildUntil very recently, most families with transgender children had never met another family like theirs. Now parents and children from the trailblazing Ackerman... Read more
The Bonds that Sustain Us
A Family Weathers a Time of UncertaintyWhat parent doesn’t know the ache of helplessness that comes when you can’t do anything for your child but feel entirely responsible anyway? Read more
Who’s the Grown-Up Here?
Helping parents abandon the “buddy” systemFamily physician and psychologist Leonard Sax insists that too many parents these days misunderstand the role they should play in their children’s lives. Read more
Saturdays Lost
Revisiting a Bittersweet RitualA son remembers a distant father and the bittersweet ritual that bonded them. Read more
Bubble-Wrapping Our Children
The Perils of Overprotective ParentingWe've become so focused on keeping children safe that we exaggerate the dangers they face despite the fact that they’ve never been safer. Still, no amount of... Read more
The Freedom Ride
On the Road with a Restless Woman and Her SonA woman in a life transition takes her son on an eventful road trip. Read more
Rush to Judgment
Beware of the ADHD diagnosisPart of the epidemic of misdiagnosed ADHD in young children today results from a failure to understand how trauma often leads to difficulty learning in school. Read more
Louder than Words
The Unspoken Code of Fathers and SonsA Bruce Springsteen song helps crack the unspoken code of father–son communication. Read more
Empowering Today's Parental Authority Figures
Ron Taffel on What Families Can't Function WithoutRon Taffel discusses how Generation X and Millennials handle authority and raising kids differently than their parents. Read more
Desperate Love
A Father Faces an Impossible ChoiceWith his son’s freedom hanging in the balance, a father must decide whether to give the gift of forgiveness one more time. Read more
Testing the Bond
What's family without shared identity?In an encyclopedic new book, Andrew Solomon explores how parents and children forge emotional bonds with one another in the presence of sometimes vast inborn... Read more
Taming The Wild Things
Helping Anxious Kids and Their ParentsIn this age of helicopter parents and protective child professionals, we can often recreate a potent anxiety- reinforcing system around children that not only... Read more
Dilemmas of the “Haveitall” Mom
A Young Mother Struggles with a New IdentityA young woman confronts the myths and dilemmas of motherhood. Read more
Recovering Together
An Ailing Mother Comes to the Aid of Her SonAn ailing mother and son help each other find their way back to health. Read more
Editor's Note: January/February 2012
Kids These DaysThe old compact between family and society—each doing its part to protect and promote the whole—seems to be badly strained, if not flat-out broken. Thus... Read more
The Decline And Fall Of Parental Authority
...and What Therapists Can Do About ItAmerican parents today face a perfect storm of cultural and social circumstances that undermine the very foundations of parental authority. In response... Read more
Brain-Based Parenting
What Neuroscience is Teaching Us About Connecting With Our KidsOur growing understanding of attachment and the processes that shape the parenting brain are opening new possibilities for helping stressed-out parents who are... Read more
The Parent Circle
Tapping the Wisdom of True ExpertsTraditional approaches to helping parents too often fail to address their profound sense of disempowerment and frustration. It’s time to find new ways to... Read more
From Estrangement to Engagement
Helping Fathers and Daughters ConnectHelping Fathers and Daughters Connect Read more
The White Tuxedo
Saturday Night Fever Comes to the Bar MitzvahSaturday Night Fever comes to the bar mitzvah. Read more
In every love relationship, there are words that best remain unspoken. Read more
From Conflict to Alliance
A road map for family interventionsThere's no substitute for a clear clinical model that can guide you through the therapeutic change process. Read more
Bringing Up Baby
Are We Too Attached?While therapists may consider some intuitively appealing ideas about human development---like attachment theory---beyond dispute, the researcher's job is to... Read more
Listening to Your Heart
Sometimes Life's Greatest Gifts are Disguised as DisappointmentsA mother deals with the news that her child will have a lifelong impairment. Read more
Tough Love
They Don't Make Fathers Like They Used ToFond memories of an old-fashioned father who believed in practicing tough love with his fists. Read more