Parenting

The Therapeutic Relationship, Revisited

A Man Discovers a Safe Guide, and a Real Person, in His New Therapist
Stephen Lyons

By Stephen Lyons - My work with Sara began in an uninspiring, windowless, downtown suite that she shared with another therapist. But before long, my therapy... Read more

Playing with Anxiety

Helping Young Children Face Scary Situations

How to use the therapeutic play zone to help young children face difficult situations. Read more

Turns in the Road

Highlights from the Networker Journey

Out of all the hundreds and hundreds of articles that have appeared in the Networker over the past four decades, we’ve chosen a small sampling that captures... Read more

When the Rules Change

Learning to Learn from Your Children

There’s a crucial point in the parenting life cycle that’s not often discussed in the literature. Read more

As a therapist, how do you work with conservative parents struggling to parent their trans child? Psychotherapist Jean Malpas shares three keys to acceptance. Read more

It Takes A Tribe

What It's Like to Raise (or Be) a Transgender Child

Until very recently, most families with transgender children had never met another family like theirs. Now parents and children from the trailblazing Ackerman... Read more

The Bonds that Sustain Us

A Family Weathers a Time of Uncertainty

What parent doesn’t know the ache of helplessness that comes when you can’t do anything for your child but feel entirely responsible anyway? Read more

Who’s the Grown-Up Here?

Helping parents abandon the “buddy” system

Family physician and psychologist Leonard Sax insists that too many parents these days misunderstand the role they should play in their children’s lives. Read more

Saturdays Lost

Revisiting a Bittersweet Ritual

A son remembers a distant father and the bittersweet ritual that bonded them. Read more

Bubble-Wrapping Our Children

The Perils of Overprotective Parenting

We've become so focused on keeping children safe that we exaggerate the dangers they face despite the fact that they’ve never been safer. Still, no amount of... Read more

The Freedom Ride

On the Road with a Restless Woman and Her Son

A woman in a life transition takes her son on an eventful road trip. Read more

Rush to Judgment

Beware of the ADHD diagnosis

Part of the epidemic of misdiagnosed ADHD in young children today results from a failure to understand how trauma often leads to difficulty learning in school. Read more

Louder than Words

The Unspoken Code of Fathers and Sons

A Bruce Springsteen song helps crack the unspoken code of father–son communication. Read more

Empowering Today's Parental Authority Figures

Ron Taffel on What Families Can't Function Without

Ron Taffel discusses how Generation X and Millennials handle authority and raising kids differently than their parents. Read more

Desperate Love

A Father Faces an Impossible Choice

With his son’s freedom hanging in the balance, a father must decide whether to give the gift of forgiveness one more time. Read more

Testing the Bond

What's family without shared identity?

In an encyclopedic new book, Andrew Solomon explores how parents and children forge emotional bonds with one another in the presence of sometimes vast inborn... Read more

Taming The Wild Things

Helping Anxious Kids and Their Parents

In this age of helicopter parents and protective child professionals, we can often recreate a potent anxiety- reinforcing system around children that not only... Read more

Dilemmas of the “Haveitall” Mom

A Young Mother Struggles with a New Identity

A young woman confronts the myths and dilemmas of motherhood. Read more

Recovering Together

An Ailing Mother Comes to the Aid of Her Son

An ailing mother and son help each other find their way back to health. Read more

The old compact between family and society—each doing its part to protect and promote the whole—seems to be badly strained, if not flat-out broken. Thus... Read more

The Decline And Fall Of Parental Authority

...and What Therapists Can Do About It

American parents today face a perfect storm of cultural and social circumstances that undermine the very foundations of parental authority. In response... Read more

Brain-Based Parenting

What Neuroscience is Teaching Us About Connecting With Our Kids
Jonathan Baylin and Daniel Hughes

Our growing understanding of attachment and the processes that shape the parenting brain are opening new possibilities for helping stressed-out parents who are... Read more

The Parent Circle

Tapping the Wisdom of True Experts

Traditional approaches to helping parents too often fail to address their profound sense of disempowerment and frustration. It’s time to find new ways to... Read more

From Estrangement to Engagement

Helping Fathers and Daughters Connect

Helping Fathers and Daughters Connect Read more

The White Tuxedo

Saturday Night Fever Comes to the Bar Mitzvah

Saturday Night Fever comes to the bar mitzvah. Read more

In every love relationship, there are words that best remain unspoken. Read more

From Conflict to Alliance

A road map for family interventions

There's no substitute for a clear clinical model that can guide you through the therapeutic change process. Read more

Bringing Up Baby

Are We Too Attached?

While therapists may consider some intuitively appealing ideas about human development---like attachment theory---beyond dispute, the researcher's job is to... Read more

Listening to Your Heart

Sometimes Life's Greatest Gifts are Disguised as Disappointments
Elizabeth Flynn Campbell

A mother deals with the news that her child will have a lifelong impairment. Read more

Tough Love

They Don't Make Fathers Like They Used To
Steven Friedman

Fond memories of an old-fashioned father who believed in practicing tough love with his fists. Read more